S3 E33 - Hit the SPOTlight with Quinn Creator Adam Craves

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[MUSIC PLAYING]

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QuinnCast ladies in the house.

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All last, my G.

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Oh, my God.

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Oh, last, Muggy.

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What's that all about?

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I thought it was better than hello, Smuggy,

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because you can't be racist,

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but I went with--

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Well, racist to all Spanish people now.

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So well done.

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Well done.

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You've just moved the racist elements of a different country.

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I am practicing my Spanish because I'm going to Spain soon,

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so I'm just practicing.

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Oh.

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I mean, you going to Jules, we are doing a Queen Castle tour.

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Yeah, we're part of her luggage, right?

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We automatically fit, right?

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That's what I thought.

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I thought, yeah, because she wouldn't possibly leave us at home.

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No way!

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You're not leaving me in the US, are you kidding me?

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No, maybe you want some remain in the US to be--

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No, do you, please.

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No, do you, please.

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I mean, if I'm telling you to shove me into a suitcase,

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you know, things aren't great.

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Yeah, she's not even dead.

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Oh, Lord.

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Lordy, Lord.

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And we're back for another hit the Spotlight episode.

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Oh, looks exciting.

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It looks exciting.

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Well, look, it's been a while since we did this,

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but it hasn't been its only but a couple of weeks.

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I know.

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But it does feel like a long time.

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Does, doesn't it?

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It does.

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We are out of practice.

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We need to do, mama, mama, mama, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy.

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Red leather yellow leather, red leather yellow leather.

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Red spreader, red leather, yellow spreader, red spreader, yellow spreader.

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So who are we talking to in this episode of Hit the Spotlight?

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We are talking to somebody who I swear just came out of nowhere

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on the moon.

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Be careful.

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Did he wipe it up?

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Well, we will ask him shortly.

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We will ask him very soon.

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No, we won't.

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No, we won't.

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We will.

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[LAUGHTER]

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I'm sorry.

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You are talking to Adam Craves today.

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Oh, yeah.

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Yeah, very excited.

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And I would like to tell you both a little bit about him

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if that's OK with you.

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Oh, I would love that.

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It's just with it.

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I am Ben Covea.

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So nice.

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So Adam is a voice actor who cares deeply about his work

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and how it lands with the listener.

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He's passionate about creating audios

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that feel authentic and intentional

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and believes in the power of storytelling to spark connection.

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He's also an advocate for open communication in the bedroom

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and he wants to help men feel more confident

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expressing their emotions.

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I love him already.

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I know.

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Absolutely.

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He sounds white.

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He sounds white too.

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Sweet for me to interview him.

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Well, we'll see what we can do to him

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during the interview and how he'll show us.

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What was that red, red spreader yellow spreader?

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Yeah, that's spreader yellow spreader.

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So Adam Craves, I generally had heard of him

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in the last sort of month, a couple of months.

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But yeah, I'm really excited to get to know him

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because we literally know not that much about him.

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He's very mysterious because we do our homework here at Quinncast.

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Oh, yes.

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We do.

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And we're good researchers

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and he was tough to find stuff on.

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So I'm interested to interview him just to learn more

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because we say he's new on the scene.

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Maybe he's not.

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Maybe he's producing audios elsewhere in some secret layer.

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Layer?

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Layer.

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All right.

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He's got more.

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He's got more.

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And also, when we say we investigate,

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we are doing it for podcast purposes.

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We do not advocate or promote any deep diving of any creator

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in this space or anywhere else.

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Thank you.

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Shall we get him in?

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Yeah, let's bring Adam in, shall we?

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[APPLAUSE]

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So Adam, welcome to the Quinncast studio.

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Thank you so much for joining us.

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Thank you very much for having me.

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So we like, I don't know if you've listened to any of our episodes,

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we're not judging.

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But we are if you haven't.

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But we'd like to start off all of our interviews

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and chats with a little game just to warm us all up.

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So I'm just going to tell you what the game is.

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And then we're going to ask for your consent to play

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because we're all about consent here.

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Yes, I learned that.

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I learned that very quickly once I started submitting.

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[LAUGHTER]

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The point is, I would submit something and I like,

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well, you need to make sure that she says yes.

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So--

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[LAUGHTER]

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All about consent.

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Yes.

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Well, some of us are.

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So the game is called Craves List.

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Oh, lovely.

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And we are going to give you two clues to decide

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what type of craving we are describing.

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OK.

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Do we have Adam Craves your consent to play Craves List?

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Yes.

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[LAUGHTER]

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Excellent, so--

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OK, here is round one.

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[MUSIC PLAYING]

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Again, I'm going to give you three clues, and then you guess

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what the craving is.

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Clue number one, its smooth, rich, and melts

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at body temperature.

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Clue number two, ancient Aztecs, used it as currency.

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And clue number three, it's often

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a go-to after heartbreak.

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Well, let's see.

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Ancient Aztecs used it as currency.

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I would say chocolate.

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But it would also be cacao, which they probably

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use more than chocolate.

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Oh, look at this currency, man.

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Cacao level off, level off right there, yes.

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OK, bonus point, bonus point.

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You have bonus points.

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Now I'm curious, Adam, what's your go-to chocolate craving?

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Dark chocolate.

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I like 70% hot chocolate.

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I do like hot cocoa, yeah.

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But if I'm just want something like at night,

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I love popcorn.

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I think there's one called evil something popcorn, which

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is great.

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It's just like out of the bag.

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But usually like a 70% dark chocolate would just hit that

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for me.

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It sounds better.

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It likes a bit of a cacao.

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Not too bitter, not too bitter, though.

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It's got just a little bit of--

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It's not like 90%.

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OK, round two.

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Clue one, it's invisible, but addictive.

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Clue two, you might chase it on social media.

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Clue three, it feels good until it

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doesn't-- Oh gosh.

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That's a tough one.

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It's a tough one.

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Do you all know these?

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Do you know the answers?

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Yeah.

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We have the answers in front of us.

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We have the answer key.

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I'm playing by myself, as usual.

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Yeah.

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OK.

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That's why you might pay for that.

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I was going to say like likes, but like--

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Ooh, that's so close.

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Attention.

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[BEEPING]

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Yes, attention.

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Attention, yes.

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Really?

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Yeah, right.

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Oh, god, sure, I didn't think you were--

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I didn't think you were going to get that.

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I'm under estimate of you.

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Yes.

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Oh, great.

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I did.

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I'm under estimate of you.

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As always, I knew all along you'd get it.

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Yeah, all right.

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God, it browned.

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You were always my favourite.

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Oh, god.

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You know, we're never going to hear the last of that,

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Mr. Carbess.

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Oh, that's going to be the audio grime.

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I'm going to clip that.

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Oh, Joe, John, that's going to be your next tattoo.

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Fiddle that.

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Focca.

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So just a little follow up on that.

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What's your favourite way to get attention?

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As Adam Craves are in my regular life.

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Oh.

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Oh.

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How about both?

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I love reading the comments after a story.

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I love to get that kind of feedback,

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whether it's positive or negative.

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I like to, as you know, toss some humor into my stories

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occasionally.

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Yeah.

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And so I love to kind of get the feedback,

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because we'll get into it, but the way I do my stories

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are very specific to me.

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In my regular life, I do a couple of different things,

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an artist.

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So I do photography, and I do, like, say art, which people

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tend to like.

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And then, I guess I do other stuff.

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So that's--

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[LAUGHTER]

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That's about all I'll say.

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And, fair.

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Ready for the next one?

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Oh, yes.

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There's more, sure.

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Clue number one.

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It's socially acceptable, but slightly addictive.

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Clue number two.

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Morning people swear by it.

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And clue number three.

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Without it, you are not human before 10 AM.

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Like coffee?

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[PHONE RINGING]

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Yes.

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Bam, you got it.

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I would not get these.

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I was like, morning sex?

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Or morning sex?

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Yeah.

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I told you we should have left that one in.

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See, I'll take morning sex over coffee any day, because--

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I mean, I--

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Morning sex is more than slightly addictive,

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but that's just me.

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So--

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And you're addicted to coffee.

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All right, a little follow up to that,

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then what is your kind of coffee preference?

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Like, do you like an espresso shot and omate?

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What's kind of your go-to?

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I don't drink coffee at home, typically.

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I don't-- I just don't--

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I enjoy coffee.

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I love the smell of coffee.

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I just-- it's just not my thing to do in the morning.

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I have different things I'll do.

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I'll kind of go on like a little thing.

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So like right now, it's just apple cider vinegar

277
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and some honey in warm water, especially

278
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because I was kind of getting over it.

279
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I had like laryngitis.

280
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I've never had it before.

281
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Weird, because it's like, I did not feel sick at all,

282
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but my voice just wasn't going.

283
00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:16,520
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

284
00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:18,600
And then I love tea.

285
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I like tea a lot.

286
00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:23,160
We will make you think he was being British now.

287
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And then I'll make like a smoothie in the morning.

288
00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:27,960
But like, if I'm out, like at work or something,

289
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I will have coffee sometimes at work.

290
00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:30,640
They sometimes have coffee.

291
00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:31,480
And how do you take your coffee?

292
00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:32,280
How do I take my coffee?

293
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Yes.

294
00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:36,320
I like my coffee--

295
00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,160
Like I like my women.

296
00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:39,160
Go ahead.

297
00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:40,960
I'm just waiting for something for that.

298
00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:41,920
Sorry.

299
00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:43,120
I like no sugar.

300
00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,280
I usually take it just with like a little bit of milk

301
00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,240
or like a little bit of almond milk or just something

302
00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:47,920
like that.

303
00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,000
I like the taste of coffee, so I don't really

304
00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:51,240
put sugar in anything.

305
00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,520
I always think people that don't have sugar in their coffee

306
00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,520
they're just like so grown up.

307
00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:56,840
I look up to them.

308
00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:00,080
I can't be that person, but I look up to them.

309
00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,120
You know, growing up, we all we had in my house

310
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was like sugared cereal.

311
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And all the kids would come over to my house

312
00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:07,680
because they had like healthy cereal.

313
00:10:07,680 --> 00:10:09,080
And they like, can we have some fruit loops?

314
00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,400
And they're sprucing everything.

315
00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:13,720
All right, round four, just two more to go.

316
00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:14,320
OK.

317
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Clue number one, you can't buy it or fake it.

318
00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:20,680
Clue number two, it makes your brain produce oxytocin.

319
00:10:20,680 --> 00:10:24,280
Clue number three, it's what every romcom is built on.

320
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Or get--

321
00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:26,760
[LAUGHTER]

322
00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:29,320
But I want to see that romcom which you gave me.

323
00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:30,760
Yeah, thinking, thinking, no.

324
00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,280
That's what they've been missing.

325
00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:36,240
I would say, can't buy me love.

326
00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,320
[PHONE RINGING]

327
00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:39,320
Oh, yes.

328
00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:40,320
I'm so running.

329
00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:41,960
And you dropped a beat on song.

330
00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,320
I mean, the king is going to hear about this.

331
00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:46,720
We're going to adopt you.

332
00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:48,600
And he can carry a tune.

333
00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:49,640
I do.

334
00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:54,160
So Adam, what's one thing that makes you feel loved?

335
00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:57,600
He's talking about like my five, what are the five love languages?

336
00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:00,520
I think I like acts of servant.

337
00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:01,400
I mean, I like them all.

338
00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:03,160
I was actually having this conversation with a friend.

339
00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:04,360
It's like, they're all something.

340
00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:07,360
But like, the acts of service make me feel loved.

341
00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:08,800
Quality time makes me feel loved.

342
00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,440
Like, acknowledgment of wanting to hang with me

343
00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:14,800
or wanting to be with me or like, returning my tax messages.

344
00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:15,320
Yeah.

345
00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:16,320
That's very bicep.

346
00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:17,320
Yeah, me, me, me, me.

347
00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:19,400
So how many times have I--

348
00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:20,840
I know in my close friends, obviously.

349
00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:22,680
But there's like, you know, we have those peripheral friends,

350
00:11:22,680 --> 00:11:24,520
which we think are friends, and then we don't hear back from them

351
00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:26,080
when you're like, hey, what's going on?

352
00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:26,840
Yeah.

353
00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:27,520
Anyway, anyway, it does.

354
00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:28,840
It makes me feel like heard.

355
00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:29,360
Nice.

356
00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:30,360
I love that.

357
00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:31,360
I love that.

358
00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:35,800
Right, final round, Adam, and I know I can sense the sadness already,

359
00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:36,800
but it's over.

360
00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:37,800
But one more to go.

361
00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:38,800
Here we go.

362
00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:39,800
Clue one.

363
00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:41,800
It shows up after midnight.

364
00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:42,800
Clue two.

365
00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:45,200
You convince yourself it's harmless fun.

366
00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:46,200
Clue three.

367
00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,320
It can lead to a good time.

368
00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:50,440
It shows up after midnight.

369
00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:52,040
It can lead to a good time.

370
00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:53,200
Huh, that's a good one.

371
00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,200
It's not morning wood.

372
00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,800
You would need evening wood.

373
00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:01,440
True evening wood.

374
00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:02,680
It can lead to a good time.

375
00:12:02,680 --> 00:12:08,680
It shows up after midnight after many a rap song has spoken about it.

376
00:12:08,680 --> 00:12:09,680
Passing around for it.

377
00:12:09,680 --> 00:12:10,680
Oh, really?

378
00:12:10,680 --> 00:12:12,720
Nothing good happens after 2 a.m. is what I've heard about it.

379
00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:14,960
Oh, man, I'm not going to get this because I'm not that hip.

380
00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:15,960
Never heard that.

381
00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:16,960
Never heard that.

382
00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:18,960
Okay, another clue.

383
00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:22,400
It has something to do with a bottom with a, like a butt.

384
00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:23,400
Yeah.

385
00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:24,400
Millions of your ponies.

386
00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:25,400
Really?

387
00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:26,400
Ring, ring.

388
00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:27,400
Hello.

389
00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:28,400
Oh, God.

390
00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:29,400
What are they called?

391
00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:30,400
I used to do them.

392
00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:34,840
British, British, British call it the spell it out.

393
00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:35,840
B.

394
00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:36,840
A booty call.

395
00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:37,840
All right.

396
00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:38,840
Jesus.

397
00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:43,640
Well, edit that so it sounds like you got it right away, don't you worries?

398
00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:44,640
I don't.

399
00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:46,800
Okay, I'm not, you know, I'm humble.

400
00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:48,640
I can admit when I don't know somebody.

401
00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:53,160
Generally, I thought for that harder than I thought for most of the orgasms in my life.

402
00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:54,320
I've never done that before.

403
00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:56,320
So I don't even, so it's just not in my lexicon.

404
00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:58,320
I don't believe you for a second.

405
00:12:58,320 --> 00:12:59,320
Me.

406
00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:01,120
Or I do it all the time.

407
00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:03,160
I'm like, aw, sweet.

408
00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:04,560
I feel just so naive.

409
00:13:04,560 --> 00:13:05,560
Oh, sweet.

410
00:13:05,560 --> 00:13:13,480
And the final follow up question for that is other than sex, what's the one thing that

411
00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,880
you would leave your sofa for after midnight?

412
00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:19,520
I mean, what the obvious is to go to the bathroom.

413
00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:23,640
Probably because my cat is like whining for food and I forgot to feed him.

414
00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:24,640
Oh, yeah.

415
00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:27,080
It's nothing, nothing interesting.

416
00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:28,080
I could say.

417
00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,120
Well, it's the call of the pussy, so that's interesting.

418
00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:31,120
Yeah, there you go.

419
00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:32,920
God, he's such a bitch.

420
00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:33,920
Let me tell you.

421
00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:34,920
No, no, no, no.

422
00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:35,920
Bitch.

423
00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:39,280
Oh, thank you so much for playing our game.

424
00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:40,280
Yeah, thank you.

425
00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:41,280
That was fun.

426
00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:42,280
You did really well.

427
00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:43,280
I'm really impressed.

428
00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:44,280
I don't know about these.

429
00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:45,280
Damn.

430
00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:47,280
So I told you, that was easy.

431
00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:48,280
I'm learning.

432
00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:49,280
No, they weren't.

433
00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:50,280
He's just smart.

434
00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:51,280
Don't discredit his brilliant.

435
00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:52,280
Okay.

436
00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:53,280
He's smart, so easy.

437
00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:55,280
He's feeling all nice and warm now.

438
00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:56,280
Yeah, that was great.

439
00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:57,280
That was a great warm up, thank you.

440
00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,280
Okay, so now we're getting to the interrogation.

441
00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:00,280
Where were you then?

442
00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:01,280
The fourth.

443
00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:02,280
May the--

444
00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:04,280
I was on a booty call.

445
00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:05,280
I was on a booty call.

446
00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:08,280
I was on a booty call drinking coffee and 40--

447
00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:09,280
I called you.

448
00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:10,280
I called you.

449
00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:11,280
I covered it in melted chocolate.

450
00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:14,400
All right, so we're going to start with probably an obvious question, but we are truly

451
00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:15,400
genuinely curious.

452
00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:19,600
What inspired you to explore sensual storytelling?

453
00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:21,600
And where did you come from?

454
00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:27,920
Well, as we were talking a little bit before we had started, I had a friend who was a subscriber

455
00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:28,920
to Queen.

456
00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:33,360
And we were just chatting one day and she was talking about the stuff that she was listening

457
00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:34,360
to and I was inquiring about it.

458
00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:36,360
I had not heard of the app.

459
00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:37,640
And I was like, "Oh, that's interesting."

460
00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:40,560
And then I listened to a couple and I was like, "Oh, there's some good stuff."

461
00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:41,560
And not so good stuff.

462
00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:48,440
And I was like, "I think I could-- I have participated in real life, like, you know, with a partner

463
00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:50,680
or a girlfriend or something."

464
00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:52,360
And having a dialogue like that.

465
00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:54,800
And I enjoyed it very much.

466
00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:56,920
And so I was like, "I wonder if I could do this."

467
00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:01,160
And she was talking and explaining who she liked and what was interesting.

468
00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:02,160
And I was like, "Okay."

469
00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:04,640
And so I gave it some thought and then I kind of just put it away.

470
00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:08,040
And then I guess like a, I don't know, maybe a month or two later, for somebody who was

471
00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:09,440
on my mind, asked her about it.

472
00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:12,080
And she's like, "Yeah, so I looked into like how you audition."

473
00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:15,160
And I had a microphone for other stuff that I do.

474
00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:17,480
And I just made a little audio.

475
00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:21,360
And I did like three parts.

476
00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:25,720
My initial audition was the first audio that I released was like the therapist one.

477
00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:26,720
Oh, yeah, yeah.

478
00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:28,720
So that was like the first.

479
00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:29,720
Oh, yeah.

480
00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:33,760
What's strange is that I kind of forget why we're here.

481
00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:34,760
Yeah.

482
00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:35,760
Oh, we see that.

483
00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:36,760
That's all professions.

484
00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:37,760
Yeah.

485
00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:39,680
It's just us having a conversation and like, "Oh, right.

486
00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:41,680
You've actually listened to these."

487
00:15:41,680 --> 00:15:42,680
Yes.

488
00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:44,360
So, yeah, I did something like that.

489
00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:48,240
I just, I did like the one that you hear on coin is different.

490
00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:50,080
I hadn't re-recorded and create the story.

491
00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:51,720
But I did sort of something like that.

492
00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:56,520
They give you, like when you submit something, they give you, it's like make a little short story

493
00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:58,600
or something and they give you some ideas or whatever.

494
00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:00,280
And so I just did like three sections.

495
00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,400
So I like did a little section in the introduction and then like a middle and then like sort

496
00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:04,400
of like the end.

497
00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:07,000
And then yeah, and then they reached out and they're like, "Hey, we think we like this.

498
00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:09,640
We like to offer you a chance to do it a try."

499
00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:10,640
Almost.

500
00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:11,640
Yeah.

501
00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:14,320
And then I had when you're younger, you're like, "What's your poor name?"

502
00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:15,840
And so I was like, "Oh."

503
00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:19,640
And so Adam Craze was always like something I had created that a long time ago.

504
00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:20,920
But I never did anything about it.

505
00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,280
It was just like something I was like, "What is my name going to be?"

506
00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:24,520
So that's where it came from.

507
00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:27,160
When you had like grown up and you had to choose your poor name.

508
00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:28,160
Oh, your name?

509
00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:29,160
Yeah.

510
00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:34,160
So people from your past might stumble onto the app and go, "Adam Craze, we're going to

511
00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:35,160
submit it."

512
00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:37,280
I remember that guy in math class.

513
00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:38,280
Yeah.

514
00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:40,280
He really tickled me.

515
00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:41,280
I wonder what it...

516
00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:42,280
What?

517
00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:44,120
So here, so let me just sit there record straight here.

518
00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:46,600
So that was a big deal for me because obviously I have...

519
00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:50,400
And it'd be interesting to talk about this, but I'll say at my age, what's interesting

520
00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:55,240
about porn is like it's changed dramatically from when I was younger hunting for it, obviously,

521
00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:56,440
until now where it's everywhere.

522
00:16:56,440 --> 00:17:02,240
I don't consider what I do porn though because unlike when I had talked with a partner or

523
00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:05,880
something like that when I was actually engaging in that, like, I'm literally in my booth

524
00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:10,360
here doing an audio, creating an audio, I'm not doing anything on my end.

525
00:17:10,360 --> 00:17:11,680
I initially tried to do that.

526
00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,680
But then I got so distracted and I couldn't think of words and it just wasn't...

527
00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:15,680
It wasn't fun.

528
00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:16,680
It wasn't fun.

529
00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:20,520
It was a mediocre at best.

530
00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:25,760
And so, yeah, because I make notes on my computer, I improv all my stuff, except for the last

531
00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:26,760
two that I've done.

532
00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:30,160
And so I'll usually make a couple notes just so I can kind of stay within the story.

533
00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:34,720
It's different than like an only fans or something because I'm not participating in it.

534
00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:37,360
Just for the listener and I'm acting.

535
00:17:37,360 --> 00:17:38,360
Yeah.

536
00:17:38,360 --> 00:17:42,720
And when your friend, when you would listen to those couple of audios, could you say which

537
00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:44,720
when you listen to, do you remember who it was?

538
00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:45,720
No.

539
00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:46,720
That's okay.

540
00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:48,720
That was a very dramatic pause that you...

541
00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:49,720
I think I heard that.

542
00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:53,360
I think I listened to Naudio first because that's like the go-to, I guess.

543
00:17:53,360 --> 00:17:54,360
Right.

544
00:17:54,360 --> 00:17:55,360
He's like the dude.

545
00:17:55,360 --> 00:17:57,360
And then I listened to it.

546
00:17:57,360 --> 00:17:58,360
And Naudio was great.

547
00:17:58,360 --> 00:18:00,280
I'm not going to put anybody down.

548
00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,840
I just had a different take on what I could do.

549
00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:05,640
I think everybody has their own style, which is great.

550
00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:09,280
And every listener has what they like, which is great.

551
00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:12,880
And I thought that I could just provide a unique perspective on it, I think.

552
00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:13,880
And you really do.

553
00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:14,880
That was going to be one of my comments.

554
00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:18,720
It's like, and it makes sense now that you say most of yours are improvised.

555
00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:19,720
Yes.

556
00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:26,080
Because it does feel very, very kind of authentic, real, not manufactured, not curated.

557
00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:28,920
That yeah, it's a little like, it's fun and playful.

558
00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:33,200
And so it makes sense now with the improvising that, so it comes across as, yeah, not so

559
00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:34,920
packaged, which is lovely.

560
00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:38,560
Yeah, when Quinn offers, I don't know if this is like their standard, but they say, you

561
00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:40,440
know, we can do four a month.

562
00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:41,680
At first, you're like, yeah, it's no problem.

563
00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:45,840
And then it's like, wait, I think of four different stories like every month.

564
00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:48,680
The first six that I did, and this was not intentional.

565
00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:50,000
This is just sort of how it happened.

566
00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:53,680
But the first six that I did all became like part of this Adam verse.

567
00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:56,280
But that was not, I had no idea that that was going to happen.

568
00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:59,560
Like the first one was the therapist and the second one was the roommate.

569
00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:02,920
And I thought it would be fun if there was some kind of connection between them, like

570
00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:04,240
some kind of, some kind of connection.

571
00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:07,400
And then the third one I did, I think, was the Adam and the therapist.

572
00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:11,520
And then, and I was like, oh, well, maybe, maybe the roommates are seeing these therapists.

573
00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:15,960
Female roommate goes to see her male therapist and she's talking about, I don't know.

574
00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:19,760
It's a little convoluted if you listen to it because I didn't create it as a whole thing.

575
00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:22,760
So like, you know, there's probably things that don't line up.

576
00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:26,920
But by the like, six one Quinn was like, so is, are you gonna, are you only gonna do

577
00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:27,920
this?

578
00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:28,920
Are you gonna do something like else?

579
00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:31,960
And I was like, I don't know.

580
00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:32,960
I don't know.

581
00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:34,160
I don't know how this works.

582
00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:36,440
So then I just started to make like one offs.

583
00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:39,880
And at some point, I'm sure that that story, those stories will come back.

584
00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:41,720
They've been like, percolating in my mind.

585
00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:45,560
But yeah, and then I just started doing one offs and I was like, okay, well, how am I going

586
00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:46,800
to, what am I doing?

587
00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:50,360
And so then I just started to create, what's nice is like the way that I do it, I think

588
00:19:50,360 --> 00:19:54,240
I create a world where kind of anything can happen, depending on like what I set up.

589
00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:57,880
They were getting very meta and I think that was what Quinn was like, okay, like so the

590
00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:02,400
storyteller is listening, but then the, you're talking to the story, like in the, and

591
00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:07,080
the roommate one, Adam comments on the narrator at one point and they had like a back and forth.

592
00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:11,240
I thought that was hilarious, but they were like, that's weird.

593
00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:12,240
I love meta.

594
00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:17,360
Yeah, that's probably a file to Clevver for, for women, you know, I mean, they just want to

595
00:20:17,360 --> 00:20:18,360
want to, you know, really?

596
00:20:18,360 --> 00:20:19,360
Right.

597
00:20:19,360 --> 00:20:21,840
Well, there's got to be a balance, you know, there has to be a balance.

598
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,320
So finding that balance is, is interesting.

599
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,320
But also like, it's got to entertain me.

600
00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:27,520
Like I have to enjoy doing it.

601
00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:31,680
So I mean, the Adam first part of it, was that something you came up with or did you

602
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:35,400
have these audios somewhere else before and they were transferred to Quinn?

603
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:37,240
No, no, I made them specifically for Quinn.

604
00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:38,240
Okay.

605
00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:39,240
For Quinn.

606
00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:40,920
They, like, how long did it take Quinn to get back to you?

607
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:44,520
Because all of a sudden we started seeing these videos from Quinn, you know, using your

608
00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:50,360
audios and next thing we know, you're 21 audios in and you have 350,000 plates.

609
00:20:50,360 --> 00:20:52,280
You just came out of nowhere, I feel like.

610
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,080
Oh, yeah, I don't know.

611
00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:58,320
I just, I came in like a regular.

612
00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,920
You know, I'm older than 30.

613
00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:03,680
I'd say so I've had, you know, I've lived some life.

614
00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:06,720
I've had experience like talking in front of people.

615
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:11,640
I've had experience like engaging and, and yeah, that's all I say.

616
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,120
So I don't know.

617
00:21:13,120 --> 00:21:18,560
I just, I just, I did what I thought would be interesting and arousing and hot.

618
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:25,800
And I was listening to or reading the, the comments and sort of gauging what people found

619
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:28,240
hot or what people found interesting.

620
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:33,640
And I was finding my own voice because I, having not done this before, like, it, it's an experiment

621
00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:39,200
in what am I comfortable with and what am I good at and what do I have to learn early

622
00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:40,200
on?

623
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:44,640
I was doing like a lot of like mouth, you know, like pretending I was like going down and

624
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:45,640
someone.

625
00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:48,040
And a couple of people were like, ew, that's disgusting.

626
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,840
Like, that's, I don't want to hear that.

627
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:53,240
I'm sure there were people who liked it, but it's like, okay.

628
00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:57,560
And so what I started to do more of was try to add more words and description, but like

629
00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,920
one thing I don't do a lot of is sound effects.

630
00:21:59,920 --> 00:22:05,080
Like, I feel like, you know, I'm not, I'm not spending like hours producing this.

631
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:08,560
Like the, the longest ones I've spent are the last two that I did, which were the Halloween

632
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:13,240
ones because those are completely like a narrative version and I've added some sound effects

633
00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:14,240
and stuff.

634
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:17,200
And as those I have to like figure out the story and all that.

635
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:21,280
I like the spontaneity of it because and that was one of the things that I, I really pulled

636
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:22,880
out of listening to the other audios.

637
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:27,360
Like, I can tell when something is, is being read versus created.

638
00:22:27,360 --> 00:22:32,360
And for me, the kind of, the kind of things that when I would watch something, for instance,

639
00:22:32,360 --> 00:22:38,720
if I would watch porn or something, like I preferred something that felt more spontaneous.

640
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:40,440
And in the moment, then less produced.

641
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:42,560
And not that there's anything wrong with that.

642
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,520
It's just a personal preference for me.

643
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:49,520
And so it also gave me the leeway to like, be funny or like when something popped up in

644
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:53,560
my mind, like throw it out there and like, you know, a couple of mine are all over the

645
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:58,360
place. Like the one in the office that I'm like trying to do an interview and like, my partner

646
00:22:58,360 --> 00:23:01,980
comes in as under the desk, like, that was, that was just making me crack up because I just

647
00:23:01,980 --> 00:23:04,240
thought of the funny, funny scenario.

648
00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,760
And like the, the cop one, I thought was also like that because it was like ridiculous.

649
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,680
It was just so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, I love it.

650
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,920
So, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, I think the audience is split between,

651
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:16,440
you know, sound effects anyway.

652
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:17,440
Some people like them.

653
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:18,440
Yeah.

654
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:19,440
Some people like a little bit.

655
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:24,920
Some people like loads, you know, there is some seriously dodgy effects going out there and

656
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:28,320
there's some seriously incredibly good sound effects going out there.

657
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:29,320
Yeah.

658
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:30,320
But it's very subjective.

659
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:34,880
So, I, I like both, I like a little bit of SFX and I like zero because I like to be able

660
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:39,520
to immerse myself and sometimes the sound effect takes me away the scene.

661
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:42,720
But kind of to get to your question just so you know, like, I really did not know the

662
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:43,720
world of erotica.

663
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,760
I was not familiar with audio erotica too much.

664
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,640
I just learned this thing called book talk.

665
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,080
I don't know, I'm not in this world at all.

666
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:52,080
Yeah.

667
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:55,840
And so, it's really been interesting engaging because I started a TikTok and an Instagram so

668
00:23:55,840 --> 00:24:01,360
I could actually engage with my, my listeners and like get feedback and stuff.

669
00:24:01,360 --> 00:24:03,920
And so, this is a world I'm just not familiar with.

670
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:08,080
Like, it's really, I feel very lucky that people have taken to it and enjoyed like what I've

671
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,080
created.

672
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:11,840
But it wasn't like I came from some other world and that I was going to be like, oh,

673
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,400
now I'm going to take my, my talents and bring it over here.

674
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,520
It was, this is all very new for me.

675
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,680
And so I'm kind of figuring myself out as we go.

676
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:24,360
New person on the block, your interview therapist at this time of recording has 75 and a half

677
00:24:24,360 --> 00:24:26,160
thousand plays.

678
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:28,440
For a first audio, do you realize how good that is?

679
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,800
I think that, you know, it's interesting because I can see the numbers and I think that,

680
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:35,440
you know, they, they marketed me as like a new audio person.

681
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:36,440
So I think that definitely helped.

682
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:40,120
But I've seen like the numbers kind of go down over the, over the course and I was talking

683
00:24:40,120 --> 00:24:44,840
to somebody who was saying, you know, it's, you can see like what people like, daddy is

684
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:49,400
sleeping, got a big bump there because obviously that's like super hot.

685
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,600
But and I'll go, I'll go back to that kind of stuff.

686
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:55,280
But it's, it's also like the numbers are important obviously because I would like to get

687
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,320
more views and what now that they're giving out roses, you can get like a little bit

688
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,720
more because let's not forget like I'm, but it also like I get, you know, money, I get

689
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:02,720
paid.

690
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:03,720
It's a job.

691
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:05,480
It's nice to have like that extra income.

692
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:09,720
And again, it's like a balance of like what I like and what I want to provide for the

693
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,960
listener and finding that balance of what's going on.

694
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:16,560
So with the, with the two that I did, the Halloween ones, like I don't think the views are as

695
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,320
high because it's just not as, it's not my normal stuff.

696
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,840
You know, it's, there's a lot of story involved and obviously I get to like the hot parts

697
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:23,840
at the end.

698
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:27,120
If there's a lot more story there and I don't know if everyone, you know, wants to listen

699
00:25:27,120 --> 00:25:31,000
to 30 minutes of, of story when it was just like, I just want to get off right now.

700
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:32,000
Let's go.

701
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:33,000
Yeah.

702
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:37,040
I mean, yeah, but yeah, and there are, there's so many audio's like people, you know, listeners

703
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:38,040
have their playlists, right?

704
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:41,760
So it's like, yeah, guaranteed finisher playlist is going to be a quick little

705
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:42,760
blank session.

706
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:46,600
There's going to be like story sessions is going to be like, yeah, there's, there's room

707
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:47,600
for everything.

708
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:48,600
Yeah.

709
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:52,360
What is the, and I don't even know this, but what is the, is there a minimum length of time?

710
00:25:52,360 --> 00:25:55,240
So we believe seven minutes, I believe seven minutes.

711
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,240
Oh gosh.

712
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,040
Yeah, multiplying up by five.

713
00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:59,360
Yeah, but that's, that's rare.

714
00:25:59,360 --> 00:26:03,760
I mean, I think that's, I think they're, they average around 18 to 20, I would say, soon

715
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:07,520
as I see something that says 48 minutes, I'm like, scroll it to the big

716
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:11,400
second.

717
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:12,400
Yeah.

718
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,400
Depends on the creator, someone who takes three telling, yeah, totally depends on the creator

719
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:15,400
for me.

720
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,880
And you're saying about your numbers at them, but I think what also needs to be taken into

721
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:24,440
consideration is if, you know, somebody else drops something that's a very popular, you

722
00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,640
know, daddy, dorms, they're, they're very popular stuff.

723
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:31,840
There's certain, you know, tropes and kinks that are, they're more popular than others.

724
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:37,160
So if somebody or two or three others, creators drop that type of content and you're dropping

725
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:43,120
a story content, you know, yours is a, a smaller pocket of the audience than, than some of it.

726
00:26:43,120 --> 00:26:48,280
So I don't think it's a judgment or, you know, a marking of what you've produced.

727
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:49,280
It's just the timing.

728
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:50,280
It's just the timing.

729
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:51,280
Yeah, absolutely.

730
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:52,280
Yeah.

731
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,120
But that's also what's cool about this is that you have, I mean, I can't imagine like producing

732
00:26:55,120 --> 00:26:59,560
one a week, you know, four a month is going to be incredibly challenging, but it is also

733
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:03,120
like kind of a cool way to test different things, right?

734
00:27:03,120 --> 00:27:07,040
So if one week it doesn't hit as well as you had hoped, there's always next week and

735
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:11,120
you get to just read the feedback and, yeah, especially when you say like certain words

736
00:27:11,120 --> 00:27:12,120
that people don't love.

737
00:27:12,120 --> 00:27:13,120
Well, what?

738
00:27:13,120 --> 00:27:14,120
What?

739
00:27:14,120 --> 00:27:15,120
Jinks.

740
00:27:15,120 --> 00:27:18,920
I didn't know what, so I had to go back and feel like, okay, you know, you know, there's

741
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:22,360
certain things that you say when you're like in the moment, then you walk out of that and

742
00:27:22,360 --> 00:27:25,800
you're like, did I just, did that turn me on for, and that was weird.

743
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,800
I think I know the one you're on about.

744
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,120
I want him to say it.

745
00:27:29,120 --> 00:27:32,280
Action, I'm not going to say it, but I know what word I don't.

746
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:35,680
But see, I thought there were two different ones because once I called like a, a, a,

747
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,920
a clitoris like a little cock and people kind of freaked out about that.

748
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,120
See, I think it's me.

749
00:27:40,120 --> 00:27:42,520
And then I said, I remember that.

750
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:43,840
Yeah, I remember that.

751
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:47,000
And I said, Peehole and also that didn't go over too well.

752
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:53,000
Although some people backed me up, you know, and I challenge anyone, anyone to be like super

753
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,040
horny and like, you know, when you're down there, you've got to see everything.

754
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:57,040
Yeah.

755
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:58,040
Yeah.

756
00:27:58,040 --> 00:27:59,040
Two of them.

757
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,360
And now, you know, you're going to have the fun to it.

758
00:28:01,360 --> 00:28:02,360
Certain things.

759
00:28:02,360 --> 00:28:06,520
Like walk around thinking about that in real life, like if, if I was, you know, in a state of

760
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:11,040
a rousal, you're much more open to like those kinds of, I, not, I, I shouldn't say you.

761
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,120
I say, I'm much more open to that kind of like dialogue.

762
00:28:14,120 --> 00:28:15,120
Oh, yeah.

763
00:28:15,120 --> 00:28:17,560
I mean, there's, you know, there's certain dialogue that I wouldn't use in an office like

764
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:18,560
Peehole.

765
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:19,560
Like Peehole.

766
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:20,560
Yeah.

767
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:21,560
But I said, maybe you would use that in your office.

768
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,360
You know, you don't jump right, right to the Peehole.

769
00:28:23,360 --> 00:28:25,120
You have to, like, no, you don't.

770
00:28:25,120 --> 00:28:29,360
You know, and you still couldn't beat the ultimate for me.

771
00:28:29,360 --> 00:28:30,360
I'm not going to you.

772
00:28:30,360 --> 00:28:31,360
I can't.

773
00:28:31,360 --> 00:28:34,840
I'm not going to jump out there, like, say it, it's your, um, I'm not yucking it at all, but

774
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:36,840
bundle of nerves for a clitoris.

775
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:37,840
So what, wait, what are you saying?

776
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:38,840
You saying, do, do we do not say that?

777
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:39,840
Do not say that.

778
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:40,840
Do not say it.

779
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:41,840
Don't say it.

780
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:42,840
No, don't say bundle of nerves.

781
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:43,840
Do you guys, did I say that?

782
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:44,840
No, no, no, you didn't.

783
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,840
That doesn't feel like something that would come out of my mouth.

784
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:48,840
Any what we're going.

785
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:49,840
No, I'm joking.

786
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:50,840
See what I did.

787
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:51,840
I can't help it.

788
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:52,840
I just can't help it.

789
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:53,840
Honestly, I'm trying to melt it.

790
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:54,840
I'm sorry.

791
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:55,840
All right.

792
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:56,840
As well.

793
00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:03,840
What are your real same lines, Adam?

794
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,840
What do you hope your listeners get out of your audio?

795
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:07,840
Like, what are your, what's your intention behind them?

796
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:08,840
Um, well, it's interesting.

797
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:09,840
I was thinking about this.

798
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:10,840
So, uh, initially I just wanted them to be like turned on and, you know, get pleasure and,

799
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:11,840
enjoy the, enjoy the audio.

800
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:13,840
And then I wanted them to just, you know, I wanted them to, to laugh and have fun with it,

801
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:14,840
too.

802
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:18,840
But what's been interesting is I've gotten some feedback from people and it's, um, it's

803
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:20,840
actually helped them in their sex life.

804
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,600
And that is really, really important for me.

805
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:27,240
I've always been a very strong proponent of like communicating the bedroom, both men and women,

806
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:30,480
and I know obviously more women are self identifying.

807
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:33,200
I said, let's say, like, listen to my stories like that.

808
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:36,840
But I've had feedback from people who said, I have been able to communicate with my partner

809
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,320
in a way that I haven't been able to do that before.

810
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:40,320
That's, wow.

811
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:43,720
That, it dawned on me that like, maybe some of what I'm doing can be helpful in that

812
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:47,840
way in like how I'm communicating and how I'm using my words, uh, because I take for

813
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:52,120
granted, I am able to communicate those things and it doesn't embarrass me to like, communicate

814
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:53,120
those kinds of needs.

815
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:57,520
And I know that that's not universal, especially depending on like how you grew up or what,

816
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:01,120
what sort of environment you grew up in or what sort of dogma you grew up in.

817
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:02,640
It's always been interesting to me.

818
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,360
So like sexuality in general has always been interesting to me.

819
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:11,640
And how, from a larger perspective, the, I'd say, hypocrisy of at least the country that

820
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:16,800
I live in about you shouldn't say certain things or certain ideas or certain beliefs or

821
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:22,080
certain, um, sexualities are not correct or, you know, are not under acceptable.

822
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,560
Under certain religions or whatever.

823
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:25,960
And that is always piss me off.

824
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:26,960
Yeah.

825
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:31,120
Because I feel like sexuality is a very personal and fluid world.

826
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:35,440
And it's, so it's such a wonderful thing to be able to see someone who is comfortable in

827
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,600
their sexuality, living their own life.

828
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:41,400
Uh, I don't mean like in the bedroom, I just mean like living who they want to be.

829
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:45,160
And so I think that with the repression and it's a lot of self repression too, there's

830
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:48,400
a lot of guilt and shame that comes along with sexuality.

831
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:52,000
And that manifests itself in people trying to take over the world, you know.

832
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,880
And, and certain ways.

833
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,840
Uh, and, and not only like, you know, obviously big things like that, but just in our own world.

834
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:01,640
Like you can, we all know people who are probably sexually repressed in some way.

835
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:05,600
Uh, you know, I'm not saying that listening to my audience will, will save that, but I do

836
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:11,720
believe that being able to communicate with yourself in an honest way is incredibly healthy.

837
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:16,840
And I think that a lot of women and men, but I think a lot of women might not be fulfilling

838
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:21,040
their, their innate sexual needs because they cater to their partner and they're afraid

839
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:22,720
to speak up in the bedroom.

840
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:27,360
And I think that that is really important to like get in touch with, with that.

841
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:28,360
Yeah.

842
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:30,160
So if my audience can help in that way, I love that.

843
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:34,200
Uh, I had one person reach out and say the opposite, instead of being able to communicate

844
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,960
with her partner in a positive way, it actually made her realize that this was not the right

845
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:38,960
relationship for her.

846
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:39,960
Oh, wow.

847
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:40,960
Oh, wow.

848
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:44,880
And she actually, she wrote me maybe a month ago and told me that and then she gave me

849
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,880
an update and she said that she had left her partner and she felt great about herself,

850
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:50,840
you know, and it was, she just felt very empowered.

851
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:58,240
So I don't know exactly because I'm not like in my audio saying like, there's no like

852
00:31:58,240 --> 00:31:59,720
subliminal messages.

853
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,240
Yeah, the director's Todd has that.

854
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:06,600
And I didn't inquire with her exactly like what, what it was about my audience did that,

855
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,600
but it doesn't necessarily matter because I don't want that to necessarily influence

856
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,440
like how I make what I'm, what I'm doing.

857
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:12,440
Yeah.

858
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:13,440
Yeah.

859
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:14,880
What matters is that they're able to communicate.

860
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:18,200
And the other side of that, because I'm not speaking for women, I'm just saying like what

861
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,640
I'm getting in the response.

862
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:27,000
The other side of that is I, there is a massive problem with like male, the ability of men

863
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:32,240
to like express their feelings and the ability of men to truly like be in touch with their

864
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:33,240
feelings.

865
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:38,920
When you take, when you take like that male toxicity culture and you add the availability

866
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:44,440
of easy porn to that and then like younger men are learning how to have sex and communicate

867
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,440
by watching porn.

868
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:51,440
And the communication in porn, I'd say a lot of porn is not super great.

869
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,440
And as we know, it's just like as soon as the guy comes, it's over.

870
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:55,440
Yeah.

871
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:56,440
Mission success.

872
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:57,440
There you go.

873
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:58,440
Yeah.

874
00:32:58,440 --> 00:32:59,440
I tried, I tried, I don't always do this.

875
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:04,440
I try to put aftercare in some of my audios, just like a little bit of like day and

876
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:05,440
and while.

877
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:10,240
But and I know, I know men don't necessarily listen to a lot of my audios, but I have heard

878
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:13,920
from a couple people that when they talk to their male partners, two people let their

879
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:18,200
male partners listen to my audios and that has helped them communicate a little bit better.

880
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,200
I think that like it's really, really important.

881
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:25,280
And I haven't figured out exactly how to do this like either in my normal life or within

882
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:31,480
this, but like there is a severe epidemic of male toxicity because men have to be able

883
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:32,960
to own their masculinity.

884
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:36,400
It's a very important energy and women have a masculine energy too.

885
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:41,240
And to be able to own your femininity as a man and also your masculinity and understand

886
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,240
like what it actually means to be masculine.

887
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,760
It doesn't mean to be a complete asshole where you have no feeling and no empathy.

888
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:52,240
It means that you can, you can be a provider, you can be a, a, a sustainer, you can have powerful

889
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,240
male energy.

890
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:59,080
But you don't have to be oblivious to everything else around you and just be like an island

891
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,240
onto yourself where you can't connect.

892
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:04,960
Like that's one of the reasons that I'm in this men's group is because these are other

893
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:10,040
guys who have your families or, or lives who are dealing with stuff who aren't necessarily

894
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:14,400
comfortable talking to their male friends about things within their life because they're

895
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:18,800
like, well, maybe I'll be shamed if I say like I was crying the other day or something made

896
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,400
me upset, you know, or I was feeling very emotional towards this.

897
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:24,280
I don't know how to like process that emotion.

898
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,720
I know it's weird to be like talking about it like when you're like, yeah, but you do like

899
00:34:26,720 --> 00:34:27,880
erotic audios.

900
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:31,280
But there's something in it for me about communicating.

901
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:35,280
And if men I think can communicate better in the bedroom and be in touch with their

902
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:39,880
own sexuality, I think we would honestly be in a better place because it's very individual.

903
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:43,640
It starts very individually and then it manifests itself in society.

904
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:45,600
When did it start with you Adam?

905
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:51,640
You're saying that young boys, they're very influenced by porn, etc. and how to communicate

906
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:53,560
with a partner.

907
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,760
When did that realization hit you growing up?

908
00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:01,480
I think I was always comfortable talking about, so I got, so in my, you know, my real life,

909
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:06,520
I was introduced to porn very early on because back when I was growing up, you had porn magazines

910
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:11,920
and you had VHS and you had to hunt for these, you had to hunt these things down.

911
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:15,560
Which is one of the things that's like sucks for like any, you know, youth growing up now

912
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:20,040
is that you don't realize how easy it is, you know, and there's so much out there, obviously.

913
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:25,040
And like trying to put up barriers and protect children from seeing stuff they shouldn't

914
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,160
see is very difficult, you know, it's a whole other conversation.

915
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:31,560
But obviously as you're growing through puberty, like you're going to be seeing things, you're

916
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:32,920
going to be learning about things.

917
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:34,400
And so where do you learn about that stuff?

918
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,560
And you know, when, when I was growing up and going through that, obviously like all that,

919
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:41,320
you know, you're talking about stuff, but I remember two very specific things.

920
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:46,920
My mom worked at a place that was like, well, she worked at like a pharmacy and behind the

921
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:48,600
farm, it was like a drugstore pharmacy.

922
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:50,560
So like, and I would go to work with her sometimes.

923
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:54,120
And I remember one time I went into the bathroom in the back, you know, not the public, but

924
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:55,120
I think in the back.

925
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,080
And someone who had worked there left a magazine out and it was like a penthouse

926
00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:58,920
or a hustler.

927
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:01,360
And I was way too young to be seeing this.

928
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:06,000
And so I saw this stuff and obviously like it hit something in my brain, but I was really,

929
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:09,880
I really gravitated towards like the stories, like the penthouse forum or whatever they look

930
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:10,880
at.

931
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:14,320
And I remember like, I would rip them out and I would take them home and I was like learning

932
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:17,880
to read, like, you know, obviously a little older, but like, you know, I'm reading like

933
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:18,880
erotica.

934
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:20,880
And so like the story itself always stuck with me.

935
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:25,120
And so like when I was developing, obviously I would like, you know, I'd saw porn and stuff.

936
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,800
But like there was something about the stories and the words that I just found really

937
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:28,800
interesting.

938
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:32,160
And then the other thing that looking back on something in turns like nostalgia is like when

939
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:37,920
you're growing up like in the 80s or 90s and you had to find porn, that was an adventure.

940
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:41,880
You know, you'd be like, Hey, you know, you know, Johnny, can I come over and hang out and

941
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:42,880
you're like, yeah, sure.

942
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,000
And then you're like, okay, I'm just going to go to the bathroom.

943
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:46,000
I'll be right back.

944
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:49,360
And like you start like hunting in the in like the parents house.

945
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,080
Like I was dad's got porn around her somewhere.

946
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:52,080
You're like, where's the drawer?

947
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:53,080
I was like, yeah, yeah.

948
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:54,080
I was like, yeah.

949
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:55,080
Yeah.

950
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:57,520
And you find something and you're like, Oh, I've gotten it.

951
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:58,520
Are you stealing?

952
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:01,600
You know, the dad's not going to be like, what happened to my porn little Johnny?

953
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:07,920
But that was like a big thing and then you take it into school and you'd hold it up like,

954
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:12,160
you know, Andrew, what was the guy's name in 16 candles when he held up the panties?

955
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,160
I am.

956
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,160
Anyway, don't do that.

957
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:19,240
If you're listening, but anyway, but there's something, there's something like adventurous

958
00:37:19,240 --> 00:37:22,120
about that in nostalgic instead of just being like, I'm going to turn my computer on

959
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:24,000
and hit this and just like, boom, bitch.

960
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,640
You know, it's just you're always the journey.

961
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:27,640
And that's part of it.

962
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:29,920
It's the journey, but it's also like, I mean, those were coveted.

963
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:34,480
You know, you had like a couple that you would watch hundreds of times.

964
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,560
But in terms of like what it does to, I don't know the answer.

965
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:41,200
I don't know what it does to, to the youth today to see as much as they're seeing.

966
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:43,840
I imagine, I imagine it's not awesome.

967
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:44,840
It's not great.

968
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:49,000
And now that like open AI is opening, they just announced that like they're going to have

969
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:52,600
for you know, chat GPT open AI owns chat GPT and they just announced that they're going

970
00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:54,760
to add erotica to, to the platform now.

971
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:59,880
And so, you know, what's really, what's really scary is the idea of having, you know, these

972
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:04,440
characters, these AI characters that anyone, I mean, obviously adults, but underage can get

973
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:05,440
access to.

974
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:07,680
It's a really crazy world that we're stepping into.

975
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:08,680
Yeah, it's tough.

976
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:12,280
And I feel like, you know, the, I have to say the youth, but I'm talking about teenagers,

977
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,960
young adult, you know, like early 20s, I feel like they're already so desensitized.

978
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:19,080
You know, if they have a, I don't know, they log into a porn site and they have to wait

979
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:23,040
like 10 seconds for it to load, it's like a huge deal because everyone's so used to

980
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:27,360
now the instant gratification, I can get porn, you know, wherever I want, whenever I want.

981
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:30,480
And it's not just like, I mean, it's one thing to be like, oh, you have to wait, but it's

982
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:34,840
also like, how does that affect interpersonal communication and interpersonal relationships?

983
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:36,880
So that's really the end result of everything.

984
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:37,880
Yeah.

985
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:38,880
Yeah.

986
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,080
You know, it's like, yeah, we have access to all this stuff and like watching a 2.5 hour

987
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:46,200
movie is like torture, but how is it, how is it going to affect the interpersonal communication?

988
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:50,040
I mean, like with, I got a buddy who's a, who's a teacher and he was saying like the difference

989
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:55,360
between pre-pandemic and post-pandemic for his students is immense and anybody that was

990
00:38:55,360 --> 00:39:00,120
like in a bubble and had the ability to, to still create, especially when you're like in

991
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:04,200
a middle school age, to create interpersonal relationships, the kids that weren't are really

992
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:05,960
lacking in their ability to communicate.

993
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:11,120
I think it's, I think for a long time, you know, porn has had not the greatest impact on

994
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:14,920
kids and particularly young men as you're saying that they're just what their condition

995
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:20,080
to believe of how relationships work and the dynamic between them and the communication

996
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:26,240
or lack thereof, it just reinforces that thinking that they are deserving of on-demand pleasure.

997
00:39:26,240 --> 00:39:27,240
Yeah.

998
00:39:27,240 --> 00:39:28,240
Just so not the case.

999
00:39:28,240 --> 00:39:31,800
And so, so I think, you know, to circle all the way back to what you were saying, Adam,

1000
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:35,760
about the impact of the work that you're doing, which I know, and we say this to a lot

1001
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,920
of creators when they come on, that, you know, on the surface, it can seem like, you know,

1002
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:42,840
you're just creating audio orodic, and you know, to turn people on and get them off, whatever,

1003
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:46,680
as you're hearing from your listeners, it's so much more than that, at least for women,

1004
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:47,960
we hear it all the time.

1005
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:52,760
It's the case for us that it is really powerful work that is giving us language that was

1006
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:56,920
not provided to us elsewhere, to even not only give us the language to communicate what

1007
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,800
we want, but to even learn what it is we like and want.

1008
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:00,800
Exactly.

1009
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,120
You know, listening to an audio going, "Oh my God, that's a little couch-tingle, I didn't

1010
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:04,400
know that was going to do that for me."

1011
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:05,400
Yeah.

1012
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:09,160
So it's like, you get to learn stuff that it's, so it's really, it's very impactful medium.

1013
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:10,160
Yeah, basically, yeah.

1014
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:13,160
Possibly, yeah.

1015
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,680
I had someone sent me a message yesterday and it was, all it said was like, listen, I forgot

1016
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:20,360
which one they listened to, but it was more of like a DOM from my perspective.

1017
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,760
And I think I start with like, get the fuck in your knees.

1018
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:27,280
And they wrote to me, they're like, "Well, learn something new."

1019
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,880
And I just inquired, I was like, "What, you know, she told me, and she said, "I work in

1020
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:34,920
a very, I'm an A type personality, and I have to be in control of everything in the

1021
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:35,920
field that I work in."

1022
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:39,600
And she said, "And I've never, I never knew this about myself."

1023
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:43,120
You know, I don't know if she has a partner or not or she's married or whatever, but like,

1024
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:46,480
it just might not be a dynamic between them that she would even think about doing, but

1025
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:48,840
that was something that opened up for her inside.

1026
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:50,680
Maybe she can explore with her partner or...

1027
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:54,360
You can honestly say, I didn't come out as kinky until I was 50.

1028
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,320
And it was because of Quinn and the communities.

1029
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:57,920
It wasn't the dumb thing.

1030
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:03,320
And so I've heard from hundreds of women in these A.E. communities who have found their

1031
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:07,360
enjoyment of sex or something new they didn't know about themselves.

1032
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:10,560
You know, irrelevant whether they're sharing it with a partner, they just found something

1033
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:14,680
about their own pleasure and their own desire that they're now able to talk about without

1034
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,600
fear of judgment, persecution or ridicule.

1035
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:18,600
Yeah.

1036
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:22,800
Yeah, I think that's what I've heard most from our listeners, from if you listen to any

1037
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:27,000
sort of audio-erotica platform is people are starting to be like, "I deserve this pleasure.

1038
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:30,760
I never thought of it this way, but this is something I want, and it's okay for me to

1039
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:33,440
want it without feeling that shame or feel that.

1040
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:34,440
Like, "Oh, is this okay?"

1041
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:37,280
That's the biggest thing with listeners that I've heard.

1042
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:38,280
Completely agree.

1043
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:42,120
Yeah, and that's the mentality that I hope everyone can have because it just makes as soon

1044
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:46,640
as you start repressing things, the rest of your life just starts to in subtle ways show

1045
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:47,640
that.

1046
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:52,040
Yeah, so if any VA sits in front of us and says that they're not impacting women positively

1047
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:57,120
or men positively, then I'm going to tell you to shut the fuck up because I can line

1048
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,680
up 200 women right now that will tell you differently.

1049
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:03,560
I mean, even circling back Adam to what you said about the person who messaged you about

1050
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:05,480
how she ended up leaving her relationship.

1051
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:10,840
I mean, that is huge because of listening to these things, she was able to actually say,

1052
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,680
"I deserve more than what I have right now, unbelievable."

1053
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:17,560
Yeah, one of the other things, I'm trying to figure out doing personal stuff because I've

1054
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,040
had some people ask if I can record personal stuff for them.

1055
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:24,080
So I'm trying to figure out how to do that just monetarily and whatever.

1056
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:28,240
What's interesting is I haven't had anyone reach out and say, "Can I have a personal, erotic,

1057
00:42:28,240 --> 00:42:29,240
sexual audio?"

1058
00:42:29,240 --> 00:42:32,640
I've had three people reach out and say, "Can you give me an affirmation's audio?"

1059
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:33,920
Tell me that I'm a good person.

1060
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,040
Tell me that I'm worthy and deserving.

1061
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:39,720
And it's just like, "I want to hand it, breaks my heart because I can't imagine this world

1062
00:42:39,720 --> 00:42:41,720
that they're living in."

1063
00:42:41,720 --> 00:42:46,320
And like, that they just don't get that at all and they need it, they need it desperately

1064
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:50,680
but they're not getting it from either their family or relationships.

1065
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:51,680
So that was interesting.

1066
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,920
But I'll order an audio and it will be, "Get on your fucking knees."

1067
00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:55,920
That's what it's going to be.

1068
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:56,920
Yeah, that will be smart.

1069
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,280
And it's the cameo offers that, right?

1070
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:00,280
Right?

1071
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:01,280
Does now?

1072
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:02,280
Right.

1073
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:03,280
Does now?

1074
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:07,320
So, to ask you a question, what do you think is the biggest thing that you've learned about

1075
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:08,320
women since then?

1076
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:09,320
Oh, about women.

1077
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,120
That they're fucking kinky.

1078
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:12,120
Yes, we are.

1079
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:13,120
Yes, we are.

1080
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:14,120
Every time.

1081
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,120
Oh my god, what?

1082
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,960
Every time I was like, "I don't know, this might be too much."

1083
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:20,720
We were like, "More, more."

1084
00:43:20,720 --> 00:43:24,720
Even if we didn't know we were, then exactly.

1085
00:43:24,720 --> 00:43:27,160
Yeah, they are just as kinky.

1086
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:32,160
If not, honestly, kinkier than men because I feel like women are more in touch with

1087
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,920
even though we're talking about women realizing they're sexuality, I just feel like they're

1088
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:39,240
more willing to open themselves up to new experiences like that.

1089
00:43:39,240 --> 00:43:41,720
Do you realize how long we've been repressed?

1090
00:43:41,720 --> 00:43:46,800
We have volcanoes of repression that we need to fire out onto the blow.

1091
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:47,800
It's a blow.

1092
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:49,320
Yeah, and it's literally.

1093
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:53,200
So yeah, and also just like what they're into.

1094
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:57,160
I never really heard the word "fair all too much," but it's being tossed around quite a lot.

1095
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:58,800
Oh, that's my middle name.

1096
00:43:58,800 --> 00:43:59,800
Oh.

1097
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:00,800
Yeah.

1098
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:01,800
Yeah.

1099
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:03,360
Yeah, it's interesting.

1100
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:08,640
It's interesting to get that feedback and to see what it is that really gets someone going.

1101
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:13,880
Yeah, that's the power of this work is that it gives us permission to, and especially in

1102
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:18,880
these communities that the creators then create, and to speak with other women and be like,

1103
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:19,880
"Oh, my God.

1104
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:21,360
I'm not a weirdo, you too."

1105
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:25,760
So yeah, we're learning what we like, or we're learning to feel safe voicing what we

1106
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:27,400
like through these audios, so.

1107
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:28,720
And to love your body, too.

1108
00:44:28,720 --> 00:44:33,680
And one of the things I started to do, just to really pay attention to the female anatomy,

1109
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:39,040
and talk about different parts and pay attention, because again, it's like if you watch porn,

1110
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:44,120
you won't really know what to do when you're down there, so if you're going down on someone,

1111
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:45,120
what do you do?

1112
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:51,040
And for a person who isn't super comfortable with a female anatomy, it can be very overwhelming.

1113
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:54,240
And find the clitoris, pin the tail on the clitoris.

1114
00:44:54,240 --> 00:44:56,240
(Laughter)

1115
00:44:56,240 --> 00:44:59,080
You know, I'll probably enjoy that, but my spinning probably wouldn't.

1116
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:01,320
Which is the next title of my next audio.

1117
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:02,320
Yeah, perfect.

1118
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:03,320
Oh my God.

1119
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:04,320
If genuinely.

1120
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:05,320
Oh my God, please make that your next audio.

1121
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:06,320
See?

1122
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:07,320
Fantastic.

1123
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,320
I mean, we have a sticker that says, "Locate the clitoris."

1124
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:10,320
So our quintesticker?

1125
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:11,800
Yeah, but it's true.

1126
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:15,400
It's like, and once you get there, what the fuck do you do with it?

1127
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:19,440
It's like, so I try, and I'm not saying that, like, I, you know, I never took a class

1128
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:23,360
on this, but at my own experience, I have learned certain things, and I think I try

1129
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:24,840
to describe that in my audios.

1130
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:29,440
I try to make a person who's listening really be able to know what's going on, as opposed

1131
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,440
to just saying, "I'm going down and you know."

1132
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:32,440
Yeah, yeah.

1133
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:35,080
I try to make it more visceral in a way.

1134
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:39,400
One of the male feedback that we get is that, you know, how do you know what you're doing

1135
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:41,160
wrong if nobody tells you?

1136
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:45,800
But I think women for a long time didn't dare say that, you know, can you just move a

1137
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:47,200
little bit to the left or no?

1138
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:48,200
Keep doing what you do.

1139
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,000
You know, we were very afraid to do that.

1140
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:54,800
Now, with the newfound confidence that we're developing, we're now able to, you know,

1141
00:45:54,800 --> 00:46:01,120
to guide and instruct and tell, and I think men now being able to accept that as not being

1142
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,640
a "your rubbish" criticism.

1143
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:04,640
Right.

1144
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:09,360
And listen, so how do you feel that the audiological world helps you as a man do that?

1145
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:10,360
Well, let's see.

1146
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:12,360
Well, one, I want to just talk to what you just said there.

1147
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:18,600
Like, the ability for someone to take criticism as a positive thing, I think is, it can be

1148
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:22,120
difficult, because I think there can be, it can be very reactionary to, like, feeling

1149
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:26,240
insecure about what you're doing and then being told to do something else and then thinking

1150
00:46:26,240 --> 00:46:27,720
that you're wrong.

1151
00:46:27,720 --> 00:46:28,720
Man carry a lot of shame.

1152
00:46:28,720 --> 00:46:32,320
For me, like, part of it is obviously trying to turn on a woman, but like if a man were to

1153
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:37,440
listen or if a woman were to let a man listen to me, I'm very specific in what I'm saying.

1154
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:41,160
And I try to hint at, like, you know, listening to her breathing is really important.

1155
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:44,520
Like just in real life, like if I was to give a class on this, it's like, listen to how

1156
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:45,520
she's breathing.

1157
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:49,680
You can tell if you're doing something right by listening how she's breathing.

1158
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:51,400
Change the technique.

1159
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:56,360
You know, where you're touching, change like the curvature of your tongue, change how hard

1160
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:59,160
or how soft you're doing something because it's a give and take.

1161
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:02,920
Like that's even what if it's a dumb, sub sort of thing, it's still a give and take.

1162
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:03,960
Everything's a give and take.

1163
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:06,840
And so you have to, you know, and it's okay to say like, do you enjoy this?

1164
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:07,840
Is this good?

1165
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:08,840
What do you like?

1166
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:10,840
You know, especially when you're getting into other, and I'll answer your question,

1167
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:12,560
but especially if you're getting into like other things.

1168
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:13,840
So like anal sex, right?

1169
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:16,000
That's not something I learned the hard way.

1170
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,040
That's not something you should just jump into.

1171
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:23,360
If you jump into it, there's a problem.

1172
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:26,800
Yeah, I will never, yeah, I will never include that in one of my stories.

1173
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:27,800
It was horrible.

1174
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:28,800
Okay.

1175
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:30,840
I appreciate that.

1176
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:31,840
Yeah.

1177
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:33,920
It's okay to talk about it, right?

1178
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:37,520
It's okay to like say like, hey, you know, if you're, if you're into it and you guys are

1179
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:39,400
like talking about it, like, let's do that tonight.

1180
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:43,800
You know, I think that there's this like shame in planning and like shame in like talking

1181
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:44,800
about something.

1182
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,920
It's almost like there's this belief that like we can talk about sex in the moment,

1183
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:51,480
but we're not going to talk about it before because that like ruins the moment or anything,

1184
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:55,520
but it's like both with like three sums, multiple people and with like stuff like anal sex,

1185
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,960
like having a conversation before makes the experience so much better.

1186
00:47:58,960 --> 00:47:59,960
Yeah.

1187
00:47:59,960 --> 00:48:04,240
You know, like I have had a couple of my life and not like a crazy three-some person, but like

1188
00:48:04,240 --> 00:48:07,560
it was always better when it wasn't just like, let's just see how much we can drink and

1189
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:08,560
then maybe this will happen.

1190
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:12,280
And you know, as opposed to it's like, hey, this is where we're both, we're all interested

1191
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:13,280
in this.

1192
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:14,280
Let's talk about it.

1193
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:15,280
Yeah.

1194
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:19,560
And so everybody's on the same page and everybody's comfortable because I can tell you like

1195
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:23,800
how many how many times an occurrence like that happened and it was like going into it,

1196
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:29,480
everybody felt okay and then one person suddenly doesn't feel okay, but they don't know how

1197
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:33,960
to say no or you want to have anal sex, but you like don't talk about it.

1198
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:38,320
So the person is afraid to like do is do shing the right word or like just clean themselves.

1199
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:39,320
Yeah.

1200
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:40,840
And then you're like, you're covered in shit.

1201
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:42,080
You know, it's like, what?

1202
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:47,040
You know, because it can, if you're into that, it can be a really wonderful experience.

1203
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:51,680
And so what I'm, what I'm hoping in terms of like anyone is like, there's, it's okay to

1204
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:53,000
talk about stuff before him.

1205
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:54,880
It's okay to talk about it when you're not horny.

1206
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:55,880
Yeah.

1207
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:56,880
Yeah.

1208
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:57,880
Yeah.

1209
00:48:57,880 --> 00:48:58,880
Yeah.

1210
00:48:58,880 --> 00:48:59,880
You know, to make it all better on the other side.

1211
00:48:59,880 --> 00:49:02,920
And answer to your questions, much tell me again, what the question was.

1212
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:03,920
Oh my God.

1213
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:05,920
So all I can think of is backdoor action now.

1214
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:06,920
Sorry.

1215
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:07,920
Backdoor.

1216
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:08,920
Backdoor.

1217
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:16,400
And how many partners I've had who have accidentally, you know, knocked on the slipped in.

1218
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:17,760
And it's like, where are you going?

1219
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:19,720
And it's like, Oh, well, you know, I'm in now.

1220
00:49:19,720 --> 00:49:22,760
It's like, you know, there's no turning back.

1221
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:23,760
Yeah.

1222
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:24,760
Right.

1223
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:25,760
Yeah.

1224
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:28,800
I just like what you were saying out of it's, you know, it's interesting to think about

1225
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:32,600
talking about something in advance as for play in and of itself.

1226
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:35,040
You know, it's like, you know, you can't talk about it till you're in the, in the heat

1227
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:36,040
of the moment.

1228
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:39,520
Because it does feel strange to like, oh, you can't just talk about it unless you're like

1229
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:40,520
kind of doing it.

1230
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:44,800
But you know, that could be its own for play of like anticipating what's to come and preparing

1231
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:47,840
accordingly, whether it's communication or animals.

1232
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:48,840
Yeah.

1233
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:51,120
Well, I think it, yeah, exactly.

1234
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:56,760
If it's not something that's, that's automatically erotic, like, do ushing or animals or whatever,

1235
00:49:56,760 --> 00:50:00,320
there can be like this yuck factor to it.

1236
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:03,680
But it's, you know, it's always better to talk about that kind of yuck than the actual

1237
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:04,680
yuck.

1238
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:05,680
Yeah.

1239
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:06,680
Yeah.

1240
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:11,080
And I think like maybe even just like we're saying like changing just the way you're talking

1241
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:14,040
about it, because you know, I've known a lot of people in relationships would be like,

1242
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:16,360
Oh, God, I don't want to plan out sex.

1243
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:17,360
I just want to have it.

1244
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:21,320
So if you're thinking about it like that, of course, you're going to go into it in a negative

1245
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:22,320
way.

1246
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:25,800
But if you change your mindset with it and approach it a little bit differently and say,

1247
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,560
you know, we're going to talk, we're going to talk about this so that it's better when

1248
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:32,000
we're actually doing it, you know, like that can completely change everybody's mindset.

1249
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:33,000
Totally.

1250
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:36,000
And then there's nothing wrong with like, you know, not talking about sex and then just

1251
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:37,000
doing it.

1252
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,000
Like there's room for this room tonight.

1253
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,000
Oh, God, hope, oh, my God.

1254
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:42,000
Yeah.

1255
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:44,840
And so to shift a shift a little bit into like technique of you know, of the of the

1256
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:49,560
audio you create, like what kind of kind of vocal technique I guess do you lean toward

1257
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,360
or use to create intimacy?

1258
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:54,600
I mean, literally like technically like distance from the mic.

1259
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:55,600
Okay.

1260
00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:58,840
How am I, my gain turned up louder so they can pick up like breathing and stuff like that?

1261
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:02,800
Yeah, because Quinn has these parameters that you have to hit in terms of loudness and

1262
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:03,800
everything like that.

1263
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:06,440
So it's a little wild to kind of figure out, just like technical stuff.

1264
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:09,240
So it's all kind of sounds the same when you listen to it.

1265
00:51:09,240 --> 00:51:14,800
You know, I record in a booth with a microphone and headphones so I can hear basically what

1266
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:15,800
the listener is hearing.

1267
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:19,920
And I think that those sort of things like the breathing, it's all of the physiological things

1268
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:20,920
I think add to it.

1269
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,400
And like an audio, if I was just doing like a, I guess a regular audio book or something,

1270
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,080
I wouldn't, you know, be breathing and stuff like that.

1271
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:30,120
It wouldn't be like ASMR, but they is like a little bit more ASMR involved.

1272
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:35,720
But I will also, you know, back away if I need to and get close or whatever.

1273
00:51:35,720 --> 00:51:39,680
And then just changing my voice like if I do more of a submissive like when I was doing

1274
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:43,400
the mommy thing, like I'll raise my voice up a little bit and I'll lower it, you know,

1275
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:46,360
if I'm doing more dumb stuff.

1276
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:47,360
How does that go?

1277
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:48,360
How does that go?

1278
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,120
It costs, that's going to cost you.

1279
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:51,760
No, for free, there's much.

1280
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:52,760
You can do it.

1281
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:53,760
I love it.

1282
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:55,760
He knows his worth.

1283
00:51:55,760 --> 00:52:02,760
And that's on repeat.

1284
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:04,720
But it's also me trying to, trying to figure it out.

1285
00:52:04,720 --> 00:52:07,560
I mean, like, I was like, am I going to have like a voice for this?

1286
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:09,360
Like the actual tone of my voice.

1287
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:11,560
And like, who was, who was Adam?

1288
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:14,600
Because like, and the first one, Adam was the therapist.

1289
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:19,160
And the second one, Adam was just like this hapless, like dude living with a, you know,

1290
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:23,560
attractive roommate who was masturbating and happened to be, get seen.

1291
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:25,560
That's an interesting, that's the one that where they were like, you can't, you know,

1292
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,160
you can't, so here's, so this is interesting.

1293
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:33,520
I had to re record and cut out some stuff in that because for anybody who hasn't heard

1294
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:38,400
it, it starts out with like the, I was referred to like the, me as the hero, like the person

1295
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:43,920
telling the story, the narrator, pleasureing himself, thinking, fantasizing alone about

1296
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:45,280
his roommate.

1297
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:49,200
And then the roommate sees him and then she comes in and stuff happens.

1298
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:54,160
And so in his world, he's fantasizing about fantasizing about her.

1299
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:56,120
And she is walking in real life.

1300
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:59,160
She was walking around with like a t-shirt and panties.

1301
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:02,840
Many a guy, I believe, is having this fantasy about like, and I'm just going to preface

1302
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:06,840
this by saying consent, consent, consent.

1303
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:10,960
But in a fantasy world, in one's own personal fantasy world, you're not always consenting.

1304
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:12,960
I'm not saying it's, it's R-A-E.

1305
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:17,680
I'm just saying in this particular case, he was like, she's teasing me.

1306
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:21,200
She's putting, she's wearing this around the house and she, I bet she wants this kind

1307
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:22,200
of thing.

1308
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:25,880
So like those words are very volatile, they'd be very volatile.

1309
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:27,840
And so there is a balance within there.

1310
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:32,000
And so anyway, I was kind of, I did, I said that and then I got back like, oh no, she's

1311
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:33,000
got a consent.

1312
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,320
I was like, yeah, but it's a fantasy inside a fantasy.

1313
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:37,480
But obviously I like want to make everybody happy.

1314
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:38,960
So I took that out.

1315
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:43,320
And then I guess there was still some stuff left in and I still got flak from like some

1316
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:44,320
of the people listening.

1317
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:47,320
They're like, oh, Quinn, Quinn allows non-consent now.

1318
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:50,640
And I was like, there definitely was not like if you really listened to it, like it didn't

1319
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,160
have real non-consent in there.

1320
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:54,160
Right.

1321
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:55,560
But it was, it's interesting.

1322
00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:56,560
That's kind of what I learned.

1323
00:53:56,560 --> 00:53:57,960
Like there really has to be this balance.

1324
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:02,120
And it's like when do I, for something that's like really dummy, like the get on your fucking

1325
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:07,560
needs is like when do I make sure that the listener knows that it's consensual?

1326
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:11,720
And so I'm, I don't know if I can just kind of come in and be like, hey, it's Adam, just

1327
00:54:11,720 --> 00:54:15,240
so you know, here's a, here's a fantasy audio.

1328
00:54:15,240 --> 00:54:17,240
Everyone's, everyone's consenting.

1329
00:54:17,240 --> 00:54:18,240
Go.

1330
00:54:18,240 --> 00:54:19,240
Yeah, right.

1331
00:54:19,240 --> 00:54:20,240
I don't know if I can, it's Claymore.

1332
00:54:20,240 --> 00:54:24,360
And do that as a disclaimer or if it has to be within the world.

1333
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:31,320
One of the, one of the best ways to subtly provide consent in a dominating type audio is to

1334
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:34,720
ask that if they know their safe word, that's consent.

1335
00:54:34,720 --> 00:54:38,280
So you ask the other person, do you know your safe word?

1336
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:42,520
Tell me your safe word and then their silence, but that's, that's consent.

1337
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:43,520
Good.

1338
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:45,840
See, this is, and this is a world that I'm not super familiar with.

1339
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:49,000
So it's like this, I'm like, I think maybe what you asked me earlier was like, what have

1340
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:50,000
I learned?

1341
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:51,000
Yes.

1342
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:56,320
And this is probably the biggest thing is like, I don't live in the, in like a BDSM world.

1343
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:58,960
And so I've had to learn a lot of the stuff.

1344
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:02,520
I knew safe word, but I, I think it's important to understand it.

1345
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:03,520
I'm not.

1346
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:06,320
Just, but that, but yeah, but that's like, in my consent there, right?

1347
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:10,360
I think that's a really good point, smart, by just saying like, let's revisit, you know,

1348
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:11,360
what you say for it.

1349
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:12,360
I need, I need to hear you say it.

1350
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:13,360
And then that's silent.

1351
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:14,360
So there's consent.

1352
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:15,360
Yeah.

1353
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:18,080
And saying that a couple times, I think throughout the audio, like if I was doing like,

1354
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:19,880
one that was really dummy, I would probably make it.

1355
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:20,880
I would just check in.

1356
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:27,120
I mean, Smudge is really, I mean, I know we're joking about it, but Smudge truly has experiences

1357
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:30,280
in a Dom sub relationship for many years.

1358
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:35,720
So she's really kind of like the resident expert with that kind of, well, yeah, sort of.

1359
00:55:35,720 --> 00:55:41,000
You have, you have, yeah, no, I really, I've had contractual Dom sub relationships and

1360
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:42,000
stuff.

1361
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:48,920
And, you know, I, I think the fact that the VA's like you learn on the job is great for

1362
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:54,960
people with, with kinks because it's, surely is opening up your world to new experiences as

1363
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:55,960
well.

1364
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:56,960
I think so.

1365
00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:57,960
Yeah, I think so.

1366
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:01,480
I think it's been, it's been more interesting to, uh, to bring some of the things that I've

1367
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:04,720
like created fake life into my, into my real life.

1368
00:56:04,720 --> 00:56:05,720
Mm hmm.

1369
00:56:05,720 --> 00:56:07,480
So it's definitely opened up like a better communication.

1370
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:11,360
I'm curious when you were on your, um, on the trip of the guys with the, with the men's

1371
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:15,560
group, did you talk about this work that you do, uh, with one person I did?

1372
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:16,560
You did, yeah.

1373
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:19,320
How did that feel for you to just be sharing that with somebody?

1374
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:22,600
Um, there are three people who know what I do.

1375
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:23,600
Mm hmm.

1376
00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:25,200
I, I didn't share the site.

1377
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:26,880
I didn't share my name or anything like that.

1378
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:27,880
Yeah.

1379
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:28,880
Um, he thought it was awesome.

1380
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,960
He's like, yeah, I'm lean, lean into that, you know, and we were just, he's, he's an entrepreneur

1381
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,280
so he, he went to like, well, how can we capitalize on this?

1382
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:35,280
How can you?

1383
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:36,280
Yeah.

1384
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:37,280
Yeah, that sounds great.

1385
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:38,280
Um, yeah.

1386
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:39,840
He was very open to it.

1387
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:46,160
Um, and, and my other friend is, uh, things, it's, things, it's great too, that I'm exploring

1388
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:52,160
So like my reservations were about like my anonymity and what would happen like if

1389
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:58,080
my world's collided. Yeah of course. What would that mean for me as a person, like career,

1390
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:03,600
my life that kind of stuff? Yeah well everyone has to have their boundaries and it's all choice.

1391
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:08,560
Being honest I'm a demesexual. So I have to connect with somebody to get turned

1392
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:15,680
on by them so it's sometimes the audio world can be slightly harder for me to get into it.

1393
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:21,520
If it's an anonymous creator just simply because I don't feel like I know who they are and I know

1394
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:25,200
the whole thing about the fantasy that you can make them be whoever you want them to be.

1395
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:29,840
But as a as a as a demesexual it's sometimes really difficult to bond sexually with

1396
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:34,400
somebody and to get off who I don't know what they look like. To find them see these are words

1397
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:39,760
that I don't know what is the demese. So it's literally I need to bond and connect with somebody

1398
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:45,360
to be sexually aroused emotionally by them so my connection becomes visual. My

1399
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:49,360
connection with somebody is a visual connection. I'm not saying I don't get turned on by sound

1400
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:55,120
but I get more turned on by sound if I know who the person is. So like an emotional connection

1401
00:57:55,120 --> 00:58:02,640
like yes you know yeah is there one you know type of audio or king or trepore etc that you

1402
00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:06,480
you wouldn't be interested in recording is there something that you just don't know that's not

1403
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:11,360
me it's not who I am. Yeah I mean I don't I don't really have homosexual tendencies so I'm not

1404
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:17,360
really into dudes but what's interesting is like I I'm very attracted to femininity I found and so

1405
00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:24,560
like a dude with a dude with a pussy versus like a chick with a dick. So many true. Yeah yeah yeah yeah

1406
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:31,840
don't get angry at me. But like I'm more attracted to the femininity than to I'd say the plumbing.

1407
00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:35,360
The plumbing? Yeah I mean I'm very very attracted to the plumbing but like

1408
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:42,880
I'm yeah I'm the same. And to be fair most of the three sums that I've partwoken or watched have always

1409
00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:47,360
been like two guys one girl and it's just two guys with the girl and not with each other. Many many

1410
00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:51,920
years ago I was dating somebody and we had like an open relationship and we did you know a bunch of

1411
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:56,400
three sums and whatever and like sex parties and I found for myself like I wasn't really into the

1412
00:58:56,400 --> 00:59:02,080
sex parties I don't like being a watch by people who aren't really engaged in the situation.

1413
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:09,360
It just was not my thing and three sums are a lot of work you know. If you're trying to make

1414
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:15,920
everybody happy it can be a lot of fun but it's a lot of work. So how do you maintain your personal

1415
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:20,800
boundaries? Now you're a voice crater and I know you're anonymous but you know with your social now

1416
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:24,960
coming on social media how are you looking to present your boundaries and tell people what they are?

1417
00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:30,240
Yeah I mean I will engage with with anyone mostly but I do keep things personal like I've had

1418
00:59:30,240 --> 00:59:38,720
some people are like oh where do you live? In the world? Yeah so it's like you know that kind of stuff

1419
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:42,640
is not of interest to me like I'm interested in how my work affects other people and

1420
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:46,880
like letting people know who I am because it's you know it's about it's not about me and there have been

1421
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:51,680
I've made a couple posts that like a little bit more about me I did like I made one post that was

1422
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:58,880
like a there's traps sort of thing but it felt like I don't know what it was like. I'll send you it

1423
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:06,800
smudgy on Instagram's phone wallpaper I got it but uh you know that's probably as

1424
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:12,080
as much as I'll ever do. So how do you anticipate? Because I think you mentioned creating some sort of

1425
01:00:12,080 --> 01:00:16,960
community outside of social media like are you considering like a discord or a patreon or

1426
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:21,520
anything like that? I have actually created all of those things I just haven't made them public yet

1427
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:27,280
so I created a discord I don't again it's like I have to understand like what to do with it

1428
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:31,760
because I'm new to this world so it's like what do I do with the discord? What do I do with the

1429
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:39,760
patreon? What do I do? I what? Wait sorry what what do I do? Yeah like I understand like Instagram

1430
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:44,560
I understand TikTok to a certain degree but I haven't utilized I mean I use discord with my friends

1431
01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:48,720
if we're playing like a video game or something. Sure. Like I haven't I haven't utilized it in terms of

1432
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:54,000
like being an anonymous figure ahead within this world. And I haven't figured out like what

1433
01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:58,800
it is that I would like to do like if I just want you know if I want to continue to just make separate

1434
01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:04,160
audios you know for subscribers you know because I can I can create you know I all can do four

1435
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:08,880
month for Quinn and if people want more I can create more but it's like and what do they want? I can

1436
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:14,720
make a a safe for work audio every 10 or out of audios for Quinn. Yeah. I've had people ask me just to

1437
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:21,120
like make stuff to like fall asleep too. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. We're talking heavily about our

1438
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:26,480
communities that we're in. Okay so what's the support like within the VA community within the Quinn

1439
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:31,040
community or the audio-arotic community for you? I don't I'm not really part of the community yet.

1440
01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:35,600
You know I have I actually haven't talked to any another creator reached out to me and I

1441
01:01:35,600 --> 01:01:39,440
spent because they had written something and asked me to be part of it. Quinn recently a month ago

1442
01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:43,040
reached out because they have something coming out. It will be the first time that I will record

1443
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:49,920
somebody else's material. Oh yeah nice. And so that will be that'll be interesting. I've had several

1444
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:53,360
writers reach out to me and they all have been very very nice and a couple of sent me scripts but it's

1445
01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:57,440
like I don't know if I'm ever gonna do that. I mean I might at some point you know because it's like

1446
01:01:57,440 --> 01:02:00,880
having to come up with stuff all the time and it will be fun to like maybe do one every once in a

1447
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:04,640
while but it's like and I appreciate them reaching out but I for right now I just kind of make

1448
01:02:04,640 --> 01:02:09,360
up my own stuff as far as like the community of like creators I really haven't engaged too much

1449
01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:13,520
with other Quinn creators so yeah. Well you're pretty new on the scene and I just I'm

1450
01:02:13,520 --> 01:02:17,120
smudged you probably already thought of this but don't you think he and Orcas would get along so well.

1451
01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:22,640
Oh my god go well so well. But just the way you speak and like your your perspectives on life and

1452
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:27,280
the way you think the feminine and masculine energy is like you and Orcas would hit it off.

1453
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:32,640
What was the name? Orcas Auditori. He's not for his growl's on Quinn and being one hell of a

1454
01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:38,800
dumb. Oh yeah. Well that I mean that could learn. I'm looking forward to completing your trip

1455
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:47,600
in time you will call me master. God that's the sexiest thing any man has ever said.

1456
01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:51,680
Open to learning right? There's our audiogram right there for this episode.

1457
01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:56,640
I'm a man and I'm open to learning done. But yeah you wouldn't you and Orcas are kindred spirits

1458
01:02:56,640 --> 01:03:02,480
I can see it totally. I've already picked in them together in my head but it's settled down.

1459
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:10,720
There's our threesome. These are guests to be professional. Well Adam you're thinking

1460
01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:17,920
of not this gentleman. Come back to Earth smudge. Peahole. Peahole. Peahole. It's never question that we

1461
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:23,680
haven't asked you that you would have wanted to have been asked during this chat. Not you know I think

1462
01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:27,280
because I sent like a little thing and about like what we could talk about I think we we covered it

1463
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:31,200
was really important to me to talk about like when we kind of got into the meat of things that

1464
01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:35,440
that stuff was really important I wanted to cover but no I don't think there's nothing comes to mind.

1465
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:40,960
What you're saying is we were perfect. That's what I heard. You were perfect there's always room for

1466
01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:47,680
improvement but yes. Or just with you. Would you say we were good girls? I would say you were a very good girl.

1467
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:55,440
Oh thank you that was so unprompted. I'm washing everything right now. I'm gonna clip out smudge asking for that.

1468
01:03:55,440 --> 01:04:04,320
Totally. Yes. Oh the magic I can work. Oh so actually though one final kind of official question

1469
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:08,160
and you you touched upon it but I'd be curious to hear like just your answer to it. How would you

1470
01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:15,120
define sexual freedom? I would say sexual freedom is the ability to not feel shame for having

1471
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:22,560
any desire that you have. That is legal. I would put that caveat on it obviously. To not repress because

1472
01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:27,360
of things that you were taught to not repress because of how you think other people judge you.

1473
01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:33,520
To me like the most hypocritical people in the world are the ones who currently have control over

1474
01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:38,560
the government in the US especially when it comes it's being pushed through with like this

1475
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:43,760
guise of Christianity. Christianity at heart gonna get into this but like Christianity at heart

1476
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:50,880
can be is a very beautiful religion. But it has been hijacked by this hypocritical patriarchal

1477
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:58,000
dominantly white male bullshit. And you know when I listen to I mean of course I'm like obviously I'm

1478
01:04:58,000 --> 01:05:04,000
from the US. When I listen to Mike Johnson this fucking puppet you can just tell when people are repressed.

1479
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:09,360
Yeah. You can tell something that's going on in this dude and it's scary. This like Christian repression

1480
01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:13,760
is dogma and it doesn't you know I'm not knocking Christianity. I just want to make sure people

1481
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:18,560
know that like I do not there is there are beautiful things in all religions but I think people

1482
01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:22,880
understand I think your listeners understand they're sparring up to understand like what is happening

1483
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:29,440
right now and what is what has happened a lot is this repression of sexuality as like a sin that

1484
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:34,400
you're born into this and you have to fix yourself. And we've sort of allowed it you know because

1485
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:38,720
because we don't talk about this stuff you know because we're not in normal places.

1486
01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:44,240
You know as soon as people start and this is like an American thing just to be uncomfortable talking

1487
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:48,080
about sex like you go to like France or someplace they'll talk about it but that has to do with like

1488
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:52,080
again it's like you know don't show a naked body because that's it starts with that it's like don't

1489
01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:56,880
show anybody because that's wrong yeah we can't look at that you know it goes it starts in there

1490
01:05:56,880 --> 01:06:01,920
and it starts to move throughout all of the all of the ways that we're being sort of not control but

1491
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:06,160
like manipulated into believing. Well he's coercive isn't it is coercive control is it?

1492
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:11,120
Yeah religion is it can be a beautiful thing and there are thousands of religions and

1493
01:06:11,120 --> 01:06:16,400
and they're very beautiful until they start to persecute people for you know their minds. Yeah exactly

1494
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:21,040
and usually it's it's because the person who's doing the prosecute persecuting are repressing

1495
01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:25,680
themselves. Yes and they're taking it out on the other people because they're jealous and they feel

1496
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:30,640
shame you know and I will bet you a hundred dollars that Mike Johnson is not walking the street line.

1497
01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:34,320
Is that 100 dollars on the exchange right? Because that's only about 72 pounds.

1498
01:06:34,320 --> 01:06:41,040
That's true. And you would dollar just to clarify there is nothing wrong with like I'm saying

1499
01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:45,040
you know not accusing him I'm just saying he's repressing something and the the thing that he's

1500
01:06:45,040 --> 01:06:49,520
probably repressing is something that he should and would be beautiful if he were to embrace.

1501
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:56,480
Most religions are persecution of women they are to put to stop us from growing from developing

1502
01:06:56,480 --> 01:07:02,560
from experiencing from learning from having power, having any type of power whatsoever so you know

1503
01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:06,800
gonna keep us in our place. I mean it's like where did confession come from like confession

1504
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:10,880
probably came or just it's like it's information it's like you have to you have to and again not

1505
01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:15,760
knocking religion if you if you're a Christian or are believing it's fully support you but it's like

1506
01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:22,240
come to this place come to this place where you can't necessarily prove that we're you can't prove

1507
01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:25,760
that we're going to tell you you're gonna go to hell so you have to behave in a right way and also

1508
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:31,120
you have to tell the head person the priest wherever all of your sins so then the church has all the

1509
01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:34,720
information on you and there's everything that's going on and they can control you you know that's

1510
01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:38,160
you know there are a lot of people who get a lot out of out of their church and out of religion

1511
01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:41,680
and out of confession and all that kind of stuff but I think at a fundamental level it's about

1512
01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:47,360
control and it's about information control. And that messes with you as you grow up. Of course

1513
01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:52,560
because it's you know if you if you remove yourself from that you know like the human experience is

1514
01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:58,480
about having feelings. The human experience is about trying to figure out what those feelings mean

1515
01:07:59,200 --> 01:08:06,480
and where you where you fit in to your life you know and I think when you're in touch with those feelings

1516
01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:13,200
whether you're a man or a woman or whatever you can live in a more honest and true light for

1517
01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:18,720
yourself and that usually manifests in being like a better person like in society. It takes a lot

1518
01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:24,160
of undoing and learning and that's what that's the work that a lot of people don't want to do

1519
01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:29,040
and so they'll hide under the guise of religion to make their behavior okay

1520
01:08:29,040 --> 01:08:33,280
rather than taking a look at themselves as to why they're thinking and behaving the way they do

1521
01:08:33,280 --> 01:08:38,000
and do I need to do something with this it's like I don't want to work on myself so I'm going to make

1522
01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:43,920
you wrong so I can be right and um well and that's why at least for men I think like they really need

1523
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:49,840
strong mentors who can show them that it's okay to do that. Bring it back just a little bit. Maybe

1524
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:56,480
they just need to get queen memberships maybe that's it right I mean I will say it's been

1525
01:08:57,200 --> 01:09:03,840
unbelievably refreshing when we speak to creators a very strong common thread between the male creators

1526
01:09:03,840 --> 01:09:11,920
that we talk to is a high level of emotional intelligence. Yes. A strong respect for women. Yeah.

1527
01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:18,240
Many of them were raised around predominantly women. That really has been such a theme that I'm

1528
01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:24,480
like there is hope there are a lot of men out there who have a fucking clue. Right.

1529
01:09:25,280 --> 01:09:30,400
About you know can see beyond the end of their own nose. This is where we would normally sign off

1530
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:35,280
and say goodbye but Adam contacted us and wanted to return to the quincar studio and carry on with

1531
01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:50,880
a conversation so here's part two. We need to find. So what you got for us man you wanted to update

1532
01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:54,960
us on some stuff we're on the edge of our seats. I just I just thought of you guys to ask how

1533
01:09:54,960 --> 01:10:02,400
everybody's doing and was your holiday okay. Oh thanks. What's your holidays. They were they were good

1534
01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:08,480
actually. I was I had been down visiting some family during Thanksgiving so I took I tend to get

1535
01:10:08,480 --> 01:10:15,520
a little cocoonish during the winter my birthday is between Christmas and New Year's and so

1536
01:10:16,080 --> 01:10:22,160
no one ever decorated my locker because we were all at school. Oh my gosh. I tend to I tend to get

1537
01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:26,880
like a little cocoon so I went away a faraway land not not too far away just into the night. Far away

1538
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:31,920
never never land. And yeah was worth some snow and just got away and it was just nice it was really

1539
01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:38,720
nice kind of I had I hadn't looked at my phone for over a week so I had no idea what was going on in the news.

1540
01:10:38,720 --> 01:10:45,280
Oh week. That's pretty amazing break. Wow that's so weird. Were you in a cabin with a crackling fire

1541
01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:52,240
in a dog laying in front of it. There's a gas in audio. I mean yes. That's a hallmark movie. It was

1542
01:10:52,240 --> 01:10:56,320
there was a crackling fire there was a dog there was a cat I brought my cat as well which might have

1543
01:10:56,320 --> 01:11:03,840
been a mistake. I love that and there was it was a nice house it was my buddy's place. Nice. There's a

1544
01:11:03,840 --> 01:11:09,360
little waterfall outside and river so it was everything you wanted to be and it's not quite a bit so it was

1545
01:11:09,360 --> 01:11:13,600
nice. Well I'm not going to tell you what my holidays were like because that was shit and compared to that.

1546
01:11:14,560 --> 01:11:20,720
Yes. Happy belated birthday by the way. Thank you very much. Yes happy belated. You do not look a day over 42.

1547
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:25,840
That's a good that's a safe number. I thought it was a safe safe number. Yeah that's a safe number. I appreciate that.

1548
01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:30,800
Just start getting the sweats and having a panic going oh I need my phone. Well that's why I actually did

1549
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:36,960
um just like for the Quinn world like that's it had been my goal to do like an aftercare like a non

1550
01:11:36,960 --> 01:11:41,520
it was still kind of sexual because I was mentioned so but intimate sort of thing not like you know

1551
01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:48,400
Santa Fe hanging people or something like um my milk and cookies come and say I'm all out

1552
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:55,840
all right. We love the bits of the cake. And so it felt it felt right to do what the last audio

1553
01:11:55,840 --> 01:12:00,960
I do which was the aftercare and that just it felt it felt good to do that and I did like I know

1554
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:06,400
we had scheduled this prior but when I did the aftercare it occurred to me and I thought this

1555
01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:10,240
was important to mention especially because what we were talking about our other stuff we were kind

1556
01:12:10,240 --> 01:12:17,440
of getting into the weeds about just um communication and how a routica can help people not just

1557
01:12:17,440 --> 01:12:23,520
you know get them off but like actually help them and it occurred to me through doing that and just

1558
01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:29,360
sort of some other conversations that I was having in my life when I had thought about aftercare

1559
01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:34,800
and when it's been talked about you know either through Quinn or just through you know people in general

1560
01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:43,360
it's often almost primarily associated with the female needing aftercare and the male has to give

1561
01:12:43,360 --> 01:12:48,160
the aftercare and it's almost like okay it's this thing that I have to do or you know the dominant

1562
01:12:48,160 --> 01:12:53,600
partner has to do this for that person it doesn't get talked about as much that the giving of the

1563
01:12:53,600 --> 01:13:01,360
aftercare is as much as important for let's say me if I am in a dominant role to also come back to

1564
01:13:01,360 --> 01:13:08,080
neutral and to also balance what has just happened so like as an example like if you let's pretend

1565
01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:11,920
we're talking about audios but if there's like a very dominant audio and the listener isn't a

1566
01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:16,880
submissive place if you love that person like you know if you're in a relationship and you have

1567
01:13:16,880 --> 01:13:22,320
this nice dynamic where you can be dominant or submissive at least for me putting on that character

1568
01:13:22,320 --> 01:13:29,840
being you know degrading someone verbally or physically uh even inflicting pain in some way

1569
01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:35,040
you can get off to that and super hot but when you come back for the other person obviously it can be

1570
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:40,160
very traumatic and stir up a lot of adrenaline and they need you know to be held and talk to but for

1571
01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:45,200
the person who's doing that they get as much out of the aftercare as the other person receiving

1572
01:13:45,200 --> 01:13:49,680
the aftercare because it gives them a chance to come back and remind themselves and can reconnect with

1573
01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:56,160
that person and to be intimate in a loving way and to say like I'm here for you and everything we

1574
01:13:56,160 --> 01:14:01,920
just went through is totally fine and it was wonderful to go through that but we've you know our chemicals

1575
01:14:01,920 --> 01:14:05,840
have exploded and signed us and now we're sort of coming back to neutral and the ability to hold

1576
01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:13,760
someone in a place of of comfort and safety regulates both partners I think or all three or whatever

1577
01:14:13,760 --> 01:14:18,080
you're doing to the extent where like people can come back to neutral and I just think it doesn't

1578
01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:24,800
get talked enough about for men and how much they need aftercare or to provide the aftercare or it's

1579
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:29,840
you know you're creating aftercare you're not just providing but you're creating aftercare or your

1580
01:14:29,840 --> 01:14:38,560
partner in which you as the the male or the dominant partner in that situation can also be healed

1581
01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:43,600
and come back to neutral or if you know if you have a dynamic where like say I was being submissive

1582
01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:47,680
and my partner is being dominant the act of giving also healed Smudge at maybe you can speak to

1583
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:53,040
this because you've been open about like how you are in your world I imagine that it takes a lot

1584
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:58,160
to either put yourself in a position of like utter submission or utter dominance and like that's

1585
01:14:58,160 --> 01:15:02,400
not how you live your life normally when you're necessarily walking through the grocery store or whatever

1586
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:06,400
it's a it's a very private sort of thing and and that's why sex is beautiful because we go to

1587
01:15:06,400 --> 01:15:12,960
these places that are so intimate within ourselves to touch those like very important intimate places

1588
01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:18,240
and they can be connected to either traumas or things that might set us off emotionally and then

1589
01:15:18,240 --> 01:15:25,040
to come back and remind us that we're safe you know for me to say like be incredibly you know if you

1590
01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:29,440
slapping somebody or if you're calling the names or degrading them to a person especially if you

1591
01:15:29,440 --> 01:15:35,200
love them then to come back and be like you know we move through this it was wonderful but like

1592
01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:41,040
this is who we are as a partner yeah I completely agree I think that the importance of

1593
01:15:41,040 --> 01:15:48,560
pre-seen care and post-seen care are two of the most important parts of a dominant and submissive

1594
01:15:48,560 --> 01:15:55,440
dynamic the pre-care means that you're creating the environment where the safe environment where

1595
01:15:55,440 --> 01:16:01,680
it's going to happen and then the after care for me was more about coming back down to some form

1596
01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:09,440
of normality and resonance and grounding and back to who you are definitely wouldn't have

1597
01:16:09,440 --> 01:16:16,800
interacted with any DOM who didn't provide both pre-care and after care so can I ask you a question

1598
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:21,520
how do you if it's not a normal partner let's say it's a new partner or some you're starting to date

1599
01:16:21,520 --> 01:16:25,680
somebody you're getting into like something what kind of communication do you have with them to know

1600
01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:32,640
that that after care is coming and do you ever have to like educate them on what how to do it

1601
01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:38,000
I feel somebody that's not quite as experienced in the dominant dynamic there can be some

1602
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:43,600
teachings however we're talking months and so that that whole getting to know each other is

1603
01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:50,240
would that be encompassed in the pre-care yeah so you know I would never enter into a dominant

1604
01:16:50,240 --> 01:16:55,440
submissive dynamic with anybody who I haven't known for several months because you have to be

1605
01:16:55,440 --> 01:17:01,280
compatible with them I'm not talking about I can go to a sex club and I can put myself on a cross

1606
01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:08,560
or a rack and be dominated easy no problem done it not a problem but that doesn't give you that

1607
01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:14,720
connection that's not a dynamic that's a bit of roleplay for a couple of hours and roleplay is

1608
01:17:14,720 --> 01:17:22,160
completely different to dominant submissive dynamics so is there a is there a difference between

1609
01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:28,160
after care in roleplay versus that what you're talking about was sort of living the experience

1610
01:17:29,440 --> 01:17:35,040
yeah I've had after care in both so after care in roleplay just normally consists of

1611
01:17:35,040 --> 01:17:40,480
giggling grabbing a cup of coffee some water maybe having a shower together then fucking after care

1612
01:17:40,480 --> 01:17:46,560
from a scene which normally lasts can last for several hours or a couple of days that requires

1613
01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:54,960
some intense level after care which is nurturing but you would only know how to after care a

1614
01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:59,200
partner that you're within that sort of dynamic if you've got to know them first which is why it's

1615
01:17:59,200 --> 01:18:05,280
important to get to know them they might not want touch afterwards I don't want to be held afterwards

1616
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:10,160
I don't want touch afterwards I want to go and have a shower and I want to lay down in a room on my

1617
01:18:10,160 --> 01:18:15,280
own and go to sleep for a few hours and then the after care starts for me but for some of you would

1618
01:18:15,280 --> 01:18:21,280
only know that if they ask me the questions so not everybody wants a cuddle not everybody wants

1619
01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:28,880
to be stroked or held or told what a great job they've done or you know well thank you for coming

1620
01:18:28,880 --> 01:18:32,800
to the Adam Cray's podcast I appreciate your nice thanks thank you for having us

1621
01:18:32,800 --> 01:18:38,400
I genuinely felt like I was being interviewed for like an bdsm podcast

1622
01:18:38,400 --> 01:18:43,760
but I feel like you all have much more experience than I do so like you know maybe not

1623
01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:50,800
life experience with jose joseph but joseph is just a baby, he's just a vanilla baby I've been with

1624
01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:57,440
the same guy for 19 years yeah well but it's still I mean like I'm sure there's things you know not to

1625
01:18:57,440 --> 01:19:02,800
pry into your relationship but I'm sure there's things to explore and things you can learn you know

1626
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:08,320
well even speaking of after care that I'm kind of because we actually did in one of our previous

1627
01:19:08,320 --> 01:19:13,440
episodes we did a segment on after care and until we did that segment I've been doing after

1628
01:19:13,440 --> 01:19:19,120
care the same way for 19 years never knew there were so many different types in that like

1629
01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:24,480
much that it can look so different for everybody and you know I used to feel a little bit bad because

1630
01:19:24,480 --> 01:19:28,960
sometimes you know you have a quickie hey you got to get to work high five that would be you know

1631
01:19:28,960 --> 01:19:33,680
our quick after care and I remember when we started talking about it I was like oh my god is

1632
01:19:33,680 --> 01:19:38,240
that bad like am I not doing it right you know listening to Quinn audio is you hear the way

1633
01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:43,280
after care is presented a lot of the times and then when we had that segment on it it's like no it can

1634
01:19:43,280 --> 01:19:48,560
look so different for so many people like smudge said smudge wants with certain scenarios wants to go

1635
01:19:48,560 --> 01:19:53,040
into a room and go to sleep and then have the after care starts is so different so that's kind of

1636
01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:57,760
what I've learned about it that just looks so different for everybody and asking also you know

1637
01:19:57,760 --> 01:20:02,080
I you know asking like if that's okay like is is the high five good is the high five okay and then

1638
01:20:02,080 --> 01:20:05,520
I text you in 20 minutes and just let you know I love you just to remind you that like here

1639
01:20:05,520 --> 01:20:10,560
right you know whatever it is the whole thing is getting to know yourself and it's like if you don't

1640
01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:15,600
know yourself well enough to even know what you need like that's a process that you have to go through

1641
01:20:15,600 --> 01:20:20,560
regardless you know to figure it out like if you're open enough to like do that self discovery with

1642
01:20:20,560 --> 01:20:25,520
yourself and that's why like for me doing like the Quinn work or the erotic audio is like I've learned

1643
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:31,440
a tremendous amount about what I need for myself just by making audios and by having fans or listeners

1644
01:20:31,440 --> 01:20:37,280
like say something back to me and being like oh I never thought about that it's a it's an interesting

1645
01:20:37,280 --> 01:20:43,520
process of learning which is also why like I just I think sex gets better with age because you have

1646
01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:47,360
a chance to realize what's going on because of the first you're just you're fumbling around you know

1647
01:20:47,360 --> 01:20:51,520
what's going on you don't know what you need you feel embarrassed you feel intimidated you know you

1648
01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:56,240
you're trying to replicate what you see in videos or whatever yeah that's never you know

1649
01:20:56,240 --> 01:21:02,960
it's never rooted who you are really yeah no I think that's part of the big thing with with

1650
01:21:03,680 --> 01:21:09,520
erotic audio right then we've said since the beginning and what you were saying earlier Adam is

1651
01:21:09,520 --> 01:21:13,600
how much learning is done doesn't matter your age doesn't matter your orientation doesn't matter

1652
01:21:13,600 --> 01:21:18,640
anything the number of people have spoken to when the things that they've learned about themselves

1653
01:21:18,640 --> 01:21:25,040
at 20 40 50 whatever as a result of listening to this work it's like wow first of all didn't even

1654
01:21:25,040 --> 01:21:28,800
know that was a thing or I kind of like that didn't I thought it was weird I didn't know that other

1655
01:21:28,800 --> 01:21:34,400
than people did too and so you can learn more about it so then if you know not only can improve your

1656
01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:38,960
relationships if you're in one but also if you do want to go out and play somewhere you kind of

1657
01:21:38,960 --> 01:21:43,680
have the language more you know the you know we have a guest that's going to be coming on to talk

1658
01:21:43,680 --> 01:21:48,320
about her experience with you know kind of dabbling into alternative lifestyles as a result of

1659
01:21:48,320 --> 01:21:53,760
finding audio orotica she would probably would have never thought at her age that she would be playing

1660
01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:58,320
with that kind of stuff but um this is what this work does for you it just opens up doors and it's like

1661
01:21:58,320 --> 01:22:04,080
okay were were you a good communicator in the bedroom from a young age then probably not like in

1662
01:22:04,080 --> 01:22:11,680
you know not like I I would be as an adult sure I don't think I I was learning what to do when I was

1663
01:22:11,680 --> 01:22:16,080
learning by doing it and I was learning by like looking and I certainly was like oh I want to try

1664
01:22:16,080 --> 01:22:21,120
that by like reading that sort of thing there were you know anal sex for instance like you know there's

1665
01:22:21,120 --> 01:22:27,680
a there's a process to it and then you know the I have found that you know communicating about it is

1666
01:22:27,680 --> 01:22:32,400
better you know and like not just jumping into it after some margaritas and fajitas

1667
01:22:32,400 --> 01:22:43,040
never very specific example that never happened to me um like he does like he does that is gonna

1668
01:22:43,040 --> 01:22:50,720
hurt tomorrow but you learn your lesson and you uh you learn that it's okay to communicate about that

1669
01:22:50,720 --> 01:22:55,040
kind of stuff but that's trial and error you know that's that's trial and error and I think when you get

1670
01:22:55,040 --> 01:23:02,800
into the more like you know uh either dominant or sub or taboo types of stuff when you're first doing

1671
01:23:02,800 --> 01:23:08,960
that um that can be really exciting but it can be really like I think there's a lot of things that

1672
01:23:08,960 --> 01:23:14,240
are happening with that because it's like it's like a logical and you're like okay do I really want

1673
01:23:14,240 --> 01:23:19,520
to have sex with my you know what does this mean for me you know and as an adult I think it's easier

1674
01:23:19,520 --> 01:23:24,400
to sort out what's going on like for someone who's actually maybe been to therapy or open to like

1675
01:23:24,400 --> 01:23:29,440
reading about the this psych the sexual psychology of humans versus like someone younger who's just

1676
01:23:29,440 --> 01:23:33,840
like fuck me daddy or fuck me mommy or whatever because you get into it and you're like so what does

1677
01:23:33,840 --> 01:23:40,240
this mean for me um why am I turned on by this like that's interesting to me as well um and you

1678
01:23:40,240 --> 01:23:45,440
you can separate it in the bedroom from like reality but you know where where does it lie for people

1679
01:23:45,440 --> 01:23:48,960
and like how far do you want to take it and like why does it make you feel uncomfortable like there

1680
01:23:49,440 --> 01:23:55,840
there are people in relationships where you might get along really well in some aspects but like in

1681
01:23:55,840 --> 01:24:01,520
in sexual aspects it might not be balanced and you know you might bring something up or ask someone

1682
01:24:01,520 --> 01:24:06,800
to call you something or want to do something and that person doesn't feel comfortable with it

1683
01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:10,720
and you know to know like either why that person doesn't feel comfortable with it or just to

1684
01:24:10,720 --> 01:24:15,360
to know like that might not ever change um and you're what are you going to do about that and how are

1685
01:24:15,360 --> 01:24:24,000
you going to then um you know without without like censoring that part of you what are you going to do

1686
01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:29,200
about that how do you learn about that yeah yeah can I ask you your question do you think there's

1687
01:24:29,200 --> 01:24:34,160
if you're with a partner you can get everything you want from them sexually I've looked at partner

1688
01:24:34,160 --> 01:24:39,520
and said even if you called me what I what I need you to call me or say it's not going to hit

1689
01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:45,120
or they've tried and it hasn't I think there's the compatibility what do you think I think that

1690
01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:51,040
it is very rare and beautiful when you find someone that you are compatible with in that way that it is

1691
01:24:51,040 --> 01:25:00,240
uh a gift in a way to find someone like that and it's very very special and it starts with being

1692
01:25:00,240 --> 01:25:08,960
able to talk about what it is that you're interested in and but and and share the things that turn

1693
01:25:08,960 --> 01:25:13,040
you on and the things that you want to try that might you might not have done with someone else

1694
01:25:13,040 --> 01:25:18,480
and what they're interested in and the things that they wanted to try um and then to be able to do it

1695
01:25:18,480 --> 01:25:24,240
but I have been in a situation situations let's um where I might have done that with someone but it

1696
01:25:24,240 --> 01:25:30,880
doesn't hit me the same as with another person that it just fires with and and and and the truth is

1697
01:25:30,880 --> 01:25:35,760
like some you can almost tell sometimes when somebody's just like phoning it in or it's like it's not

1698
01:25:35,760 --> 01:25:40,160
their kink but they're they're doing it for you because they might like you or they're they don't

1699
01:25:40,160 --> 01:25:46,400
want to be embarrassed or whatever but to me like that is the the subconscious sort of thing that you're

1700
01:25:46,400 --> 01:25:52,080
like well I know you're doing it and it might turn me on or I know I'm doing it for you and I might

1701
01:25:52,080 --> 01:25:58,720
turn you on but like it's not it you know I think that there are relationships that will never have

1702
01:25:58,720 --> 01:26:06,000
that between the the two partners um not to say like you can't still have sex and and make love or

1703
01:26:06,000 --> 01:26:12,240
whatever but like you might not get that thing that you're looking for but there are on rare occasions

1704
01:26:12,240 --> 01:26:20,480
two people who who just vibe perfectly and it's a really really special thing and you know when

1705
01:26:20,480 --> 01:26:25,280
it's there you know when it's there because it's just like you you don't even have to say it like you

1706
01:26:25,280 --> 01:26:31,040
can just look at that person and you can just get that vibe because you know that they are on the same

1707
01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:35,920
level as you it's not like they're giving it to you because they want to please you it's because

1708
01:26:35,920 --> 01:26:41,120
they're getting as much out of it as you're getting out of it and that's a special sort of thing.

1709
01:26:41,120 --> 01:26:46,320
I think that's the other thing that's happening with like the uprising of audio-rotic is that a lot

1710
01:26:46,320 --> 01:26:52,400
of people in established relationships are figuring out how incompatible they might be with their

1711
01:26:52,400 --> 01:26:57,360
partner in that way like they're learning about things that they like things that they want to try

1712
01:26:57,360 --> 01:27:01,360
they're speaking to their partner and the partner's like not really into it and then there's

1713
01:27:01,360 --> 01:27:08,000
the struggle of like well what do I do now do I just suppress this part of me and just deny it or do

1714
01:27:08,000 --> 01:27:12,640
you know I think I think there's a lot of conversations happening in relationships at least in the

1715
01:27:12,640 --> 01:27:17,680
communities we're in where they're trying to figure out how to navigate that. Yeah and not just

1716
01:27:17,680 --> 01:27:23,520
relationships but probably in therapy rooms too. Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah I think a lot of these

1717
01:27:23,520 --> 01:27:30,800
communities have therapy rooms you know. Totally. True. I think it's really powerful and also what I've

1718
01:27:30,800 --> 01:27:35,920
have found is like it extends beyond the bedroom like almost always when there's someone that I really

1719
01:27:35,920 --> 01:27:42,720
connect with in a sexual way we also share other we might share the same sense of humor for instance

1720
01:27:42,720 --> 01:27:49,360
or we might you know we might communicate just better. What audio would you like to do next if you

1721
01:27:49,360 --> 01:27:54,320
could do anything? Well I can do any audio next that's that's that's that's that's oh yeah you're

1722
01:27:54,320 --> 01:27:58,720
right that's the beauty. I'm not being I'm not being dictated it the problem is that it's so open

1723
01:27:58,720 --> 01:28:01,920
I'm trying to figure out like where I want to go. Yeah I haven't I haven't figured out exactly I

1724
01:28:01,920 --> 01:28:06,720
have like a list of things that I'm looking to do there are definitely some like part 2s and part 3s

1725
01:28:06,720 --> 01:28:14,400
that I want to do. I have been telling my like the people who follow me on social that I have a

1726
01:28:14,400 --> 01:28:19,600
patreon coming so that's something I'm working on so I'm getting that up like hopefully within

1727
01:28:19,600 --> 01:28:25,280
next week or so. Wow. On that patreon will there be more photos like the ones you've

1728
01:28:25,280 --> 01:28:31,840
recently posted? My goodness man. For fuck's sake man. I have a friend that is a very good photographer

1729
01:28:31,840 --> 01:28:36,400
and and they were like hey let me because I like I'm a photographer as well and they were like

1730
01:28:36,400 --> 01:28:39,760
let me take some pictures of you like this like that's good lighting they were hanging out and

1731
01:28:39,760 --> 01:28:42,640
I was showing them my booth and they were like me take some pictures so I took some and they're like

1732
01:28:42,640 --> 01:28:46,960
you should post this because there are very few people who know what I do. Oh right. To answer your

1733
01:28:46,960 --> 01:28:54,880
question yeah I think I think I will. What are you? I know. I need to budget now. I haven't done

1734
01:28:54,880 --> 01:28:59,440
the market research to know like what what I should be charging. Okay. I do think that there will be

1735
01:28:59,440 --> 01:29:04,320
like safe work stuff like maybe some like you know go to sleep kind of stuff because like

1736
01:29:04,320 --> 01:29:11,440
yeah. Yeah. Well as far as the next audio I don't know maybe it'll be interesting if it was about

1737
01:29:11,440 --> 01:29:21,680
podcasters. And done. So to change. I mean not that you probably listened although you probably

1738
01:29:21,680 --> 01:29:27,920
should have but our one-year anniversary episode when we had creators sending questions

1739
01:29:27,920 --> 01:29:36,560
for us. Your pal Orcas the fucker. You know he did. He asked each of us to make the sounds of a fake

1740
01:29:36,560 --> 01:29:45,600
orgasm and which one was best he'd put in an audio. Nice. Yeah nice. I'm sorry. I he better be putting

1741
01:29:45,600 --> 01:29:50,640
all three in it. Maybe like the orcas orgy. Because for fuck sake we all did it. I'm gonna say you can't

1742
01:29:50,640 --> 01:29:55,680
that would be not cool to be like this one's the best because right. Is it every orgasm the best

1743
01:29:55,680 --> 01:30:03,200
like for yourself. Good man Adam. Good man. But also can we just also say when normal people come

1744
01:30:03,200 --> 01:30:09,280
it's very much not migroian. I mean the premise the premise is there. That's a dessert. Yeah.

1745
01:30:09,280 --> 01:30:15,440
But we all did it you know but it's not like yeah I'm not that dainty. And the same thing you know I have

1746
01:30:15,440 --> 01:30:21,920
people who who believe that every time I do it in my booth I'm actually doing it and to believe that

1747
01:30:21,920 --> 01:30:27,280
is one thing and I don't want to take that away. Yeah and I found out recently there's no actual

1748
01:30:27,280 --> 01:30:34,560
two fairy but stop moving in my whole life. You know the nature of the audio is that you want to hear

1749
01:30:34,560 --> 01:30:40,400
it. So like in real life if I were to keep a sound in and actually have an orgasm I'm in myself

1750
01:30:40,400 --> 01:30:44,480
I'm in my head right I'm enjoying what's going on in here I'm not thinking about like

1751
01:30:44,480 --> 01:30:50,240
verbalizing this you know and if I'm making a sound it's because I'm just making a sound I'm not like

1752
01:30:50,240 --> 01:30:56,560
who are you know whatever I'm doing. Oh my god that was fucking Santa. That's not the same thing.

1753
01:30:56,560 --> 01:31:04,000
I mean yeah definitely that I think is a trend at the moment with people just making sounds just

1754
01:31:04,000 --> 01:31:08,480
you know moaning moaning. Yeah. Oh my god. Oh stop.

1755
01:31:08,480 --> 01:31:11,920
Oh come on. Just moaning it's just funny. Yeah. I don't know.

1756
01:31:11,920 --> 01:31:16,160
I don't like it that's it. Is that good? Is that good? Is that what you want?

1757
01:31:16,160 --> 01:31:20,320
Very good. Yes. Alright that makes it easier for me to not have to think it's great. Yeah.

1758
01:31:20,320 --> 01:31:26,320
It's quite a big. I mean if you look at yeah it's just something that's kind of going right now but yeah

1759
01:31:26,320 --> 01:31:32,480
it's been um a couple creators that and the plays are astronomical. Really?

1760
01:31:32,480 --> 01:31:37,280
And it's just moaning and breathing. One is one is like the breathing is important.

1761
01:31:37,280 --> 01:31:42,720
One is like 11 or 12 minutes the other one's like 13 minutes the plays.

1762
01:31:42,720 --> 01:31:45,360
I think I know what my next time is. Yeah.

1763
01:31:45,360 --> 01:31:52,080
But no. You probably need to just show us you know like practice just a little bit.

1764
01:31:52,080 --> 01:32:06,000
It's much. Oh man.

1765
01:32:06,000 --> 01:32:09,760
Oh my god. Yep. Yep. Yep. Done.

1766
01:32:09,760 --> 01:32:12,720
I'm going to put my head in the toilet right now.

1767
01:32:12,720 --> 01:32:17,520
I gotta go swap myself out. I'm gonna be out of it.

1768
01:32:17,520 --> 01:32:23,360
I'm a master mate. That was amazing and yes. Yep.

1769
01:32:23,360 --> 01:32:26,640
So that's yep. I mean I'm sitting on the fence.

1770
01:32:26,640 --> 01:32:33,040
You love to sit on the fence. I'm gonna have to have a few more examples.

1771
01:32:33,040 --> 01:32:38,720
Yeah. For science. For science. Practice makes perfect and we have a voice

1772
01:32:38,720 --> 01:32:42,560
voice note option on our Queen cast website.

1773
01:32:42,560 --> 01:32:45,280
Oh that's great. Queen cast.com. Got to leave us a voice mail.

1774
01:32:45,280 --> 01:32:49,440
He's a voice note. See if you can moan any better than Adam.

1775
01:32:49,440 --> 01:32:50,960
Oh my god. Imagine.

1776
01:32:50,960 --> 01:32:55,520
So what are you most excited about in 2026 in your erotic audio career?

1777
01:32:55,520 --> 01:33:00,640
I'm excited about engaging more with my fans and growing the Adam Craves brand.

1778
01:33:00,640 --> 01:33:02,160
No. No. That's really what it is.

1779
01:33:02,160 --> 01:33:06,800
Making some audios and having fun and then realizing that there is a world

1780
01:33:06,800 --> 01:33:08,320
a universe out there. Yeah.

1781
01:33:08,320 --> 01:33:14,640
And I'm very lucky to have been welcomed into it and to continue to engage and

1782
01:33:14,640 --> 01:33:20,480
educate myself and educate my fans and learn and see how far I can take it.

1783
01:33:20,480 --> 01:33:24,480
I would like to do a couple like what's a call one two people or

1784
01:33:24,480 --> 01:33:26,640
collaborate. Not fucking. But yeah fucking.

1785
01:33:26,640 --> 01:33:28,800
Collaborations spread about.

1786
01:33:28,800 --> 01:33:32,800
Yeah. I would like to do like I have an idea for a collaboration.

1787
01:33:32,800 --> 01:33:36,160
Maybe with another like a female.

1788
01:33:36,160 --> 01:33:38,640
I am free. Smudge.

1789
01:33:38,640 --> 01:33:41,280
We're having auditions next week so you can send us.

1790
01:33:41,280 --> 01:33:44,320
What call you? Don't call us.

1791
01:33:44,320 --> 01:33:46,960
I feel so happy. Yeah. Something people have said like oh you should try to do

1792
01:33:46,960 --> 01:33:50,800
collaborations and I you know I I need to figure out what that means for me

1793
01:33:50,800 --> 01:33:54,960
and like what how that works into my to my art and you know what I can do but

1794
01:33:54,960 --> 01:33:56,480
I think that would be interesting to explore.

1795
01:33:56,480 --> 01:33:58,880
Mm-hmm. And have you come up with a nine for your fan by

1796
01:33:58,880 --> 01:34:00,400
shit?

1797
01:34:00,400 --> 01:34:02,960
Well I thought they were the

1798
01:34:02,960 --> 01:34:07,360
Cravers but then somebody said Craves babes or I mean I don't know they're just

1799
01:34:07,360 --> 01:34:09,680
I think my fan base needs to come up with a name for the fan base.

1800
01:34:09,680 --> 01:34:12,320
Yes. Yes. I'm not in charge of that. That's not my thing.

1801
01:34:12,320 --> 01:34:15,600
I think it could be good. Cravelings or... Cravelings.

1802
01:34:15,600 --> 01:34:16,800
That's what I would like to do.

1803
01:34:16,800 --> 01:34:19,760
Adams, Eves and Steve's covers by this.

1804
01:34:19,760 --> 01:34:24,400
By the way, what? Eves and Steve's. Can you just go with Cravers please?

1805
01:34:24,400 --> 01:34:27,920
That's just that's it's good. It's clean. It makes sense.

1806
01:34:27,920 --> 01:34:29,440
Makes perfect sense.

1807
01:34:29,440 --> 01:34:33,600
I don't I think that sort of thing is something that organically happens with

1808
01:34:33,600 --> 01:34:36,000
Yes and the listeners. Yeah.

1809
01:34:36,000 --> 01:34:39,520
Yeah. Yeah. We can we can put a little

1810
01:34:39,520 --> 01:34:41,920
start that conversation. Yeah.

1811
01:34:41,920 --> 01:34:44,480
Oh my god. Does what you know just see what people say?

1812
01:34:44,480 --> 01:34:46,720
Like, "Where do you think this thing should be called?"

1813
01:34:46,720 --> 01:34:49,680
And then we can inform you of what has been decided.

1814
01:34:49,680 --> 01:34:51,760
That sounds great. I'm here for it.

1815
01:34:51,760 --> 01:34:55,280
Which I'm very excited to see what happens now.

1816
01:34:55,280 --> 01:34:57,920
I know. But it's our Patreon.

1817
01:34:57,920 --> 01:35:02,320
I'm very excited about your Patreon because having seen the first traps and

1818
01:35:02,320 --> 01:35:06,480
knowing that you want to dip into the SFW stuff as well which is

1819
01:35:06,480 --> 01:35:08,000
big at the moment.

1820
01:35:08,000 --> 01:35:11,920
Nice sleep aids and you can sing and you can breathe.

1821
01:35:11,920 --> 01:35:13,680
Fucking hell.

1822
01:35:13,680 --> 01:35:15,440
And you can moan. Oh, you're in good moan.

1823
01:35:15,440 --> 01:35:16,320
Yeah.

1824
01:35:16,320 --> 01:35:18,800
I can moan. I can breathe. I can sing.

1825
01:35:18,800 --> 01:35:20,480
Oh, it's the breathy pants.

1826
01:35:20,480 --> 01:35:22,320
Tick tick tick.

1827
01:35:22,320 --> 01:35:24,320
That's exactly right.

1828
01:35:24,320 --> 01:35:26,160
I already got to go get myself sorted.

1829
01:35:26,160 --> 01:35:27,440
Whatever.

1830
01:35:27,440 --> 01:35:29,680
I just have to get myself off.

1831
01:35:29,680 --> 01:35:31,360
How do you leave? We'll have a group sorting.

1832
01:35:31,360 --> 01:35:32,000
Is that what?

1833
01:35:32,000 --> 01:35:36,960
Again. I don't be willing to do that.

1834
01:35:37,920 --> 01:35:39,680
You did that just before I came on.

1835
01:35:39,680 --> 01:35:40,880
Oh.

1836
01:35:40,880 --> 01:35:44,400
Is there anything more you would like to let us know about

1837
01:35:44,400 --> 01:35:46,080
Adam Craves and David's 26?

1838
01:35:46,080 --> 01:35:48,320
Secrets you'd like to spill and he

1839
01:35:48,320 --> 01:35:50,560
cheeses you'd like to give. Come on.

1840
01:35:50,560 --> 01:35:52,960
Um, any teases any secret?

1841
01:35:52,960 --> 01:35:55,760
I feel like the secrets will come as they come.

1842
01:35:55,760 --> 01:35:57,840
I feel like there's maybe there are some.

1843
01:35:57,840 --> 01:36:00,160
Maybe I'm just, maybe they're right now.

1844
01:36:00,160 --> 01:36:02,080
I'm just pretending they're right.

1845
01:36:02,080 --> 01:36:06,480
I think that we definitely have

1846
01:36:06,480 --> 01:36:09,280
some part 2s and part 3s to look forward to.

1847
01:36:09,280 --> 01:36:11,040
Okay.

1848
01:36:11,040 --> 01:36:13,040
Yeah, so there will be some parts 2s and 3s.

1849
01:36:13,040 --> 01:36:14,800
They're the Adam verse that I started with.

1850
01:36:14,800 --> 01:36:18,080
Yeah. We'll probably have some additions to it.

1851
01:36:18,080 --> 01:36:19,280
The confession.

1852
01:36:19,280 --> 01:36:20,480
Confession.

1853
01:36:20,480 --> 01:36:22,720
I mean, it's not one of my personal favorites.

1854
01:36:22,720 --> 01:36:26,800
Neil.

1855
01:36:26,800 --> 01:36:29,120
Neil.

1856
01:36:29,120 --> 01:36:31,760
Just Neil.

1857
01:36:31,760 --> 01:36:34,320
What's interesting about it is because I improv everything.

1858
01:36:34,320 --> 01:36:39,280
It's, it's, it's, it's, it starts out as um,

1859
01:36:39,280 --> 01:36:42,400
it starts out as an idea, you know, and you know, I'll look up a couple of words

1860
01:36:42,400 --> 01:36:46,960
that I need to use, but I'm always surprised at what it becomes.

1861
01:36:46,960 --> 01:36:51,440
And so that's, it's fun for me to create as it is for someone to listen to.

1862
01:36:51,440 --> 01:36:55,840
Um, that's, so you like that rapper, that guy who just gets given three words

1863
01:36:55,840 --> 01:36:57,760
randomly and then he comes up with this rap.

1864
01:36:57,760 --> 01:36:59,680
So we could give you three words randomly.

1865
01:36:59,680 --> 01:37:01,360
You could just come up with an audio.

1866
01:37:01,360 --> 01:37:02,560
So what is saying?

1867
01:37:02,560 --> 01:37:06,560
Actually, and I might do that because I mean, if you're, if I, if I have, I can do four

1868
01:37:06,560 --> 01:37:08,560
a month, you know, times 12.

1869
01:37:08,560 --> 01:37:10,560
So that's what 48.

1870
01:37:10,560 --> 01:37:12,720
So like I have 48 audios to come up with.

1871
01:37:12,720 --> 01:37:13,920
Quinn this year.

1872
01:37:13,920 --> 01:37:14,720
Well, I've done one already.

1873
01:37:14,720 --> 01:37:15,920
So 47.

1874
01:37:15,920 --> 01:37:18,320
So yeah, I have three ideas right now.

1875
01:37:18,320 --> 01:37:21,040
Well, you put that out to your fan base.

1876
01:37:21,040 --> 01:37:22,160
Give me some words.

1877
01:37:22,160 --> 01:37:23,360
I will create the order.

1878
01:37:23,360 --> 01:37:24,320
Give me some tags.

1879
01:37:24,320 --> 01:37:26,160
That's, that, that's a great idea.

1880
01:37:26,160 --> 01:37:27,120
Yeah, that is.

1881
01:37:27,120 --> 01:37:30,400
I do ask them at one point, like give me some ideas and they gave me some great ideas.

1882
01:37:31,360 --> 01:37:33,920
And some, some of them are interesting.

1883
01:37:33,920 --> 01:37:35,600
But, oh, I can only think of the right.

1884
01:37:35,600 --> 01:37:40,240
The, yeah, there's some that I think can definitely work and I'm, I'm gonna,

1885
01:37:40,240 --> 01:37:43,200
I'm gonna like get into and I, you know, I went through to see like which,

1886
01:37:43,200 --> 01:37:44,480
what tags did really well.

1887
01:37:44,480 --> 01:37:46,480
And like which ones didn't.

1888
01:37:46,480 --> 01:37:49,120
And I have people who are like in the, in the world who are like,

1889
01:37:49,120 --> 01:37:50,400
you need to really do this more.

1890
01:37:50,400 --> 01:37:51,600
You need to do this more.

1891
01:37:51,600 --> 01:37:52,080
Nice.

1892
01:37:52,080 --> 01:37:54,640
And I'm like, you know, it's very helpful and I'll, I take

1893
01:37:54,640 --> 01:37:57,440
opinions and I put them in there.

1894
01:37:57,440 --> 01:37:59,840
Part of me is like, I'll do what I want to do.

1895
01:37:59,840 --> 01:38:03,360
Do you also like, yeah, I'm the fucking dumb bitch.

1896
01:38:03,360 --> 01:38:09,520
Which was one of the words that people really want to hear.

1897
01:38:09,520 --> 01:38:14,720
But, you know, it's also like, you know, it's, it's a business and it's, you know,

1898
01:38:14,720 --> 01:38:16,560
it's art/business.

1899
01:38:16,560 --> 01:38:20,160
And so we have to figure out like what works for the listener and what works for the algorithm and,

1900
01:38:20,160 --> 01:38:22,160
and, and grow from there.

1901
01:38:22,160 --> 01:38:23,440
Yeah.

1902
01:38:23,440 --> 01:38:26,640
So you're going to do 46 other ones and a morning one, correct?

1903
01:38:26,640 --> 01:38:30,160
45 morning and then one will have worse.

1904
01:38:30,160 --> 01:38:30,640
I love it.

1905
01:38:30,640 --> 01:38:31,840
Perfect.

1906
01:38:31,840 --> 01:38:34,960
Maybe I'll just have just the morning on that page right?

1907
01:38:34,960 --> 01:38:38,560
Maybe I'll have one morning and I'm more on the morning page.

1908
01:38:38,560 --> 01:38:41,200
Thanks Adam for coming on chat with us.

1909
01:38:41,200 --> 01:38:42,400
That's a good idea.

1910
01:38:42,400 --> 01:38:42,640
Yeah.

1911
01:38:42,640 --> 01:38:44,960
Oh, I can't wait to, I'm excited for your Patreon.

1912
01:38:44,960 --> 01:38:46,080
So don't keep us waiting too long.

1913
01:38:46,080 --> 01:38:47,520
Don't adjust on the fucking Patreon.

1914
01:38:47,520 --> 01:38:48,320
Get it going.

1915
01:38:48,320 --> 01:38:51,600
I'm hoping to have it up by the end of January maybe.

1916
01:38:51,600 --> 01:38:52,720
Oh, before the end of January.

1917
01:38:52,720 --> 01:38:54,560
Under promise, love to over deliver.

1918
01:38:54,560 --> 01:38:56,480
I'm hoping to have it by the end of January.

1919
01:38:56,800 --> 01:38:57,520
Sounds great.

1920
01:38:57,520 --> 01:38:58,000
Yeah.

1921
01:38:58,000 --> 01:38:58,800
Sounds so much.

1922
01:38:58,800 --> 01:39:02,080
So should you, are you going to do like a tease it though?

1923
01:39:02,080 --> 01:39:04,240
Are you going to like do like a social media stuff?

1924
01:39:04,240 --> 01:39:05,760
Like, like something's coming.

1925
01:39:05,760 --> 01:39:06,480
Okay, awesome.

1926
01:39:06,480 --> 01:39:07,840
Yeah, something's coming.

1927
01:39:07,840 --> 01:39:08,640
Don't know it.

1928
01:39:08,640 --> 01:39:10,640
But it soon catch the moon.

1929
01:39:10,640 --> 01:39:12,640
One hand, I'm trying to do musical theater.

1930
01:39:12,640 --> 01:39:14,240
Yes, I will definitely be teasing it.

1931
01:39:14,240 --> 01:39:16,720
I would definitely be teasing it and different.

1932
01:39:16,720 --> 01:39:19,120
And the only way that Adam craze can tease.

1933
01:39:19,120 --> 01:39:20,800
Oh my god.

1934
01:39:20,800 --> 01:39:23,520
Patreon musical audio.

1935
01:39:23,520 --> 01:39:24,720
Oh my god.

1936
01:39:24,720 --> 01:39:25,920
Oh, don't abs and hands.

1937
01:39:25,920 --> 01:39:26,880
Okay, yep.

1938
01:39:26,880 --> 01:39:29,120
Hands on bell buckle.

1939
01:39:29,120 --> 01:39:33,200
God, don't do that.

1940
01:39:33,200 --> 01:39:35,280
Not when, not maybe like half a zipper down.

1941
01:39:35,280 --> 01:39:36,960
Not during the working day.

1942
01:39:36,960 --> 01:39:37,920
Not during a working day.

1943
01:39:37,920 --> 01:39:38,960
No, the jingle of the bell.

1944
01:39:38,960 --> 01:39:40,080
The front of ours calls that.

1945
01:39:40,080 --> 01:39:40,720
Come, come, come, come.

1946
01:39:40,720 --> 01:39:42,160
The Vars calls that the dinner bell.

1947
01:39:42,160 --> 01:39:42,960
Dinner bell.

1948
01:39:42,960 --> 01:39:46,320
She's like, oh, she's like, here's a dinner bell.

1949
01:39:46,320 --> 01:39:48,560
That's his belt.

1950
01:39:48,560 --> 01:39:49,680
Yeah, part of that, that's fun.

1951
01:39:49,680 --> 01:39:51,200
Like that kind of stuff is fun for me.

1952
01:39:51,200 --> 01:39:53,040
Like to do that kind of creativity.

1953
01:39:53,040 --> 01:39:54,880
And like, you know, because I, the pictures I'd take

1954
01:39:54,880 --> 01:39:57,120
and like, you know, I have a nice camera

1955
01:39:57,120 --> 01:39:59,200
and we took nice pictures.

1956
01:39:59,200 --> 01:40:00,880
And then I was, you know, I added that stuff

1957
01:40:00,880 --> 01:40:02,560
to make it look nice and all that kind of stuff.

1958
01:40:02,560 --> 01:40:03,840
So that is fun for me.

1959
01:40:03,840 --> 01:40:06,160
All the negatives floating around anyway.

1960
01:40:06,160 --> 01:40:06,640
Negative.

1961
01:40:06,640 --> 01:40:08,720
You're generous.

1962
01:40:08,720 --> 01:40:13,200
We're not any negatives anymore, but there were many shots taken.

1963
01:40:13,200 --> 01:40:15,760
And maybe there will be more when we, you know,

1964
01:40:15,760 --> 01:40:17,520
when I decide there will be more.

1965
01:40:17,520 --> 01:40:20,960
That's good stuff of Patreon, like behind the scenes.

1966
01:40:20,960 --> 01:40:23,040
Behind the scenes of bloopers, big on pages.

1967
01:40:23,040 --> 01:40:24,800
Behind the scenes of bloopers.

1968
01:40:24,800 --> 01:40:26,560
Lots of bloopers going on too.

1969
01:40:26,560 --> 01:40:27,360
So that's, yeah.

1970
01:40:27,360 --> 01:40:28,080
I'm love that.

1971
01:40:28,080 --> 01:40:28,800
Okay, I can't wait.

1972
01:40:28,800 --> 01:40:30,960
I was, I will sort my budget now.

1973
01:40:30,960 --> 01:40:33,920
Oh my gosh, thank you Adam.

1974
01:40:33,920 --> 01:40:34,800
Thank you Adam.

1975
01:40:34,800 --> 01:40:36,480
I apologize for what this has deteriorated

1976
01:40:36,480 --> 01:40:37,280
because of this much.

1977
01:40:37,280 --> 01:40:38,480
It's half as 10 at 9.

1978
01:40:38,480 --> 01:40:39,440
But it's 10 30 at night.

1979
01:40:39,440 --> 01:40:40,720
This is my fairytime.

1980
01:40:40,720 --> 01:40:41,280
Oh wow.

1981
01:40:41,280 --> 01:40:41,840
My fairytime.

1982
01:40:41,840 --> 01:40:42,880
Thank you for staying up.

1983
01:40:42,880 --> 01:40:45,680
And when I listened to a podcast,

1984
01:40:45,680 --> 01:40:46,720
I listened to Quinn Gast.

1985
01:40:46,720 --> 01:40:49,360
Not even prompted.

1986
01:40:49,360 --> 01:40:50,240
Not even prompted.

1987
01:40:50,240 --> 01:40:51,280
Adam is king.

1988
01:40:51,280 --> 01:40:52,000
Good boy.

1989
01:40:52,000 --> 01:40:52,960
That's good.

1990
01:40:52,960 --> 01:40:54,400
Excellent.

1991
01:40:54,400 --> 01:40:55,360
Thanks, man.

1992
01:40:55,360 --> 01:40:58,080
I appreciate, uh, I appreciate y'all coming back and doing this.

1993
01:40:58,080 --> 01:40:59,120
This is great.

1994
01:40:59,120 --> 01:41:00,560
You come back and travel the anytime.

1995
01:41:00,560 --> 01:41:01,760
Please anytime.

1996
01:41:01,760 --> 01:41:03,200
Yeah, y'all come back now.

1997
01:41:03,200 --> 01:41:03,920
You hear?

1998
01:41:03,920 --> 01:41:04,560
Yeah, y'all.

1999
01:41:04,560 --> 01:41:05,920
Just the worst American accent.

2000
01:41:05,920 --> 01:41:06,560
It was terrible.

2001
01:41:06,560 --> 01:41:07,040
Terrible.

2002
01:41:07,040 --> 01:41:09,200
It's been a pleasure, Adam, as always.

2003
01:41:09,200 --> 01:41:10,480
Yes.

2004
01:41:10,480 --> 01:41:12,000
Yeah, come back anytime.

2005
01:41:12,000 --> 01:41:14,160
So there was Adam Craves.

2006
01:41:14,160 --> 01:41:15,680
Wow.

2007
01:41:15,680 --> 01:41:18,800
He was just so like,

2008
01:41:18,800 --> 01:41:20,240
don't know what to expect.

2009
01:41:20,240 --> 01:41:22,080
We didn't know what to expect because we didn't really

2010
01:41:22,080 --> 01:41:22,880
expect you to be out with him.

2011
01:41:22,880 --> 01:41:25,440
But that guy he is like, um,

2012
01:41:25,440 --> 01:41:30,880
so in touch with women right now in the world and the world itself.

2013
01:41:30,880 --> 01:41:31,440
Mm-hmm.

2014
01:41:31,440 --> 01:41:32,000
Oh my god.

2015
01:41:32,000 --> 01:41:33,840
I mean, just without his audio is alone.

2016
01:41:33,840 --> 01:41:35,360
That was a fucking proper turn on.

2017
01:41:35,360 --> 01:41:36,400
Yeah.

2018
01:41:36,400 --> 01:41:37,120
Well, amazing.

2019
01:41:37,120 --> 01:41:40,560
And I love how he went also from talking about, uh,

2020
01:41:40,560 --> 01:41:42,880
like, what women kind of get out of this space

2021
01:41:42,880 --> 01:41:46,480
and also talking about how he wants men to be more in touch

2022
01:41:46,480 --> 01:41:48,320
with their emotions and things like that.

2023
01:41:48,320 --> 01:41:49,280
I love, you know,

2024
01:41:49,280 --> 01:41:49,680
I love, you know,

2025
01:41:49,680 --> 01:41:51,040
perspective from him as well.

2026
01:41:51,040 --> 01:41:51,360
Yeah.

2027
01:41:51,360 --> 01:41:53,600
I mean, he's just another one after the conversation.

2028
01:41:53,600 --> 01:41:57,680
I'm like, I have hope for the future because there really are men out there

2029
01:41:57,680 --> 01:41:59,440
who are so awake.

2030
01:41:59,440 --> 01:42:00,640
Yeah.

2031
01:42:00,640 --> 01:42:00,960
Um,

2032
01:42:00,960 --> 01:42:02,240
what a great way to say it.

2033
01:42:02,240 --> 01:42:06,160
And honest and honest and just willing to share

2034
01:42:06,160 --> 01:42:07,920
and speak openly and be vulnerable.

2035
01:42:07,920 --> 01:42:09,520
Because like we said, we started this going,

2036
01:42:09,520 --> 01:42:10,880
we don't know much about this guy at all.

2037
01:42:10,880 --> 01:42:11,360
Oh,

2038
01:42:11,360 --> 01:42:13,120
and, uh, now it's like,

2039
01:42:13,120 --> 01:42:14,160
shit,

2040
01:42:14,160 --> 01:42:17,200
I feel like I genuinely do feel like I know him.

2041
01:42:17,200 --> 01:42:17,680
So, yeah.

2042
01:42:17,680 --> 01:42:17,840
Yeah.

2043
01:42:17,840 --> 01:42:18,400
For now.

2044
01:42:18,400 --> 01:42:18,880
Yep.

2045
01:42:18,880 --> 01:42:20,320
Another one in the bag, ladies.

2046
01:42:20,320 --> 01:42:21,280
Another one in the bag.

2047
01:42:21,280 --> 01:42:22,720
Another one in the bag.

2048
01:42:22,720 --> 01:42:24,080
So thank you so much, Adam,

2049
01:42:24,080 --> 01:42:26,080
for coming to join us here in Quinn Cast Studios.

2050
01:42:26,080 --> 01:42:27,440
It was so fun.

2051
01:42:27,440 --> 01:42:29,200
Oh, so good to talk with you.

2052
01:42:29,200 --> 01:42:30,720
Clitisans, you know the deal.

2053
01:42:30,720 --> 01:42:32,400
Let us know what you thought of the episode.

2054
01:42:32,400 --> 01:42:33,760
Your feedback really matters to us.

2055
01:42:33,760 --> 01:42:38,000
So you can email us at Quinn Cast podcast at gmail.com

2056
01:42:38,000 --> 01:42:39,760
or you can comment on Spotify,

2057
01:42:39,760 --> 01:42:40,560
um,

2058
01:42:40,560 --> 01:42:42,960
rate us, share with your friends, et cetera.

2059
01:42:42,960 --> 01:42:43,840
Uh,

2060
01:42:43,840 --> 01:42:45,920
we would love to hear any topic ideas you have

2061
01:42:45,920 --> 01:42:46,560
or anything,

2062
01:42:46,560 --> 01:42:48,160
any of the feedback you'd like to give us.

2063
01:42:48,160 --> 01:42:50,320
So we'll be back soon with another

2064
01:42:50,320 --> 01:42:52,960
fantastic episode if we do say so ourselves.

2065
01:42:52,960 --> 01:42:54,880
But for now, this has been Casah,

2066
01:42:54,880 --> 01:42:56,320
your voice matters.

2067
01:42:56,320 --> 01:42:57,280
This has been Jules.

2068
01:42:57,280 --> 01:42:58,880
Go put those lips to good use.

2069
01:42:58,880 --> 01:43:00,480
And this has been Smudge.

2070
01:43:00,480 --> 01:43:02,160
Keep one king.

2071
01:43:02,160 --> 01:43:12,160
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2072
01:43:12,160 --> 01:43:22,160
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2073
01:43:22,160 --> 01:43:32,160
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2074
01:43:32,160 --> 01:43:42,160
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2075
01:43:42,160 --> 01:43:52,160
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2076
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01:44:12,160 --> 01:44:22,160
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2079
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2083
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